"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How does one "grind"?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The JustMan
Don Juan
Yes it pays to be a good dancer, it pays but you can overdo it.
Now this is FACT, 99% of the ppl in clubs CANT dance 99% at the very least and even more true since the dancefloor is just so rammed you cant throw shapes at all. So worrying about dancing on a dance floor is crazy, dont worry unless you like to put on a show for other ppl.
To grind.
Solo, this is slow moving dancing, juts take it has that.
To grind with a women.
This is refined moves right here and i love this stuff.
Ok you hold her close to you and place your bodies together and grind you hips not in a stupid comedy way in a smooth sexy way, a great way to grind well is follow her motion. Ok from the back. you grab her waist not tightly gently sublte and she will grind her as* on yur crotch, enjoy it go with it and follow her motions.
French kissing a great example let the women lead and you follow, it makes it more passionate, i always use this model. Same applies to grinding, let them get do it all, you follow and match her motions, fall into rhythm.
Ok a few more posts from me then I am off out with the lads and try to score some fine as* wish me luck actually, psssh luck who needs luck
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Deadly_Assassin
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