"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How does one get a female into the harem mindset?

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The girl I'm currently ****ing has been open to the idea of sharing another girl, provided that the girl is as hot or hotter than her. I've been avoiding "provider" and "domestication" behaviors as much as I could (Watching movies at home together, pet names, etc.) but I have been slipping up a little by spending quite alot of time with her since I'm leaving the country soon for a while. We've been having rough kinky sex in public (elevators, random alleys, in front of museums at night, etc.).

We've decided that the girl has to be equally or more sexier than she is, and we've also agreed that the other girl is going to be our "b*tch". Oh, and that MY girl gets the lions share of my man nectar.

So, how exactly does one stay congruent with the reality of harems/joint pickup? I think I've been doing pretty good so far, but I'm just a beginner. I find that being the dominant guy with a harem suits me MUCH better than being monogamous and domesticated. It's more natural, but I would like some more advanced guys to help me set this reality deeper.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Focus on getting this threesome then you can start talking harem.
 

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setup a profile on Plenty of Fish with pictures of your girl especially if she's hot and leave it put the orientation as bi. Most chicks will shy away from couples on there. Have her keep it single and once she gets numbers and talks to these chicks she can eventually talk about you joining as her 'ex'. See what bites. The amount of straight up freaks on that site is mind blowing..you may even get a few to join both of you.

I trolled POF with a bi chick profile with n00dz seperate..got so many from various chicks it's mind blowing...and they are the same chick in the profile. Numbers tossed out like candy to 'text'. You can tell it's a real person by the n00dz they send aren't 'sterile'. meaning taken with camera phones, poor lighting, nail polish not perfect, rooms a mess. There ARE loads of real hot chicks who are freaks on there and will easily hook up with another bi chick if she's hot enough. Let the profile sit and go to clubs with your girl so she can dance with other chicks and game them that way as well.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
setup a profile on Plenty of Fish with pictures of your girl especially if she's hot and leave it put the orientation as bi. Most chicks will shy away from couples on there. Have her keep it single and once she gets numbers and talks to these chicks she can eventually talk about you joining as her 'ex'. See what bites. The amount of straight up freaks on that site is mind blowing..you may even get a few to join both of you.

I trolled POF with a bi chick profile with n00dz seperate..got so many from various chicks it's mind blowing...and they are the same chick in the profile. Numbers tossed out like candy to 'text'. You can tell it's a real person by the n00dz they send aren't 'sterile'. meaning taken with camera phones, poor lighting, nail polish not perfect, rooms a mess. There ARE loads of real hot chicks who are freaks on there and will easily hook up with another bi chick if she's hot enough. Let the profile sit and go to clubs with your girl so she can dance with other chicks and game them that way as well.
Thanks Naughty Ninja. I'm going to call you my under cover POF. LoL. Keep up the good private eye work. Am going to post a hot naked pic of me and another girl, can't wait to see what happens!
 

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ladyzman said:
Thanks Naughty Ninja. I'm going to call you my under cover POF. LoL. Keep up the good private eye work. Am going to post a hot naked pic of me and another girl, can't wait to see what happens!

You'll get deleted posting n00dz on the site or any revealing pics. If you do a 'bi' profile...put up pics of a girl your girl whoever is down only...especially if she's hot and the pics aren't obviously fake. Some of the chicks are serious about meeting other hot chicks..no joke.

Just got off chatting with an Asian chick..Fvccckk..she sent me some insane pics of her and another chick...real chit..same chick in the pictures..non 'sterile' pictures too....good lord the chicks on that site are straight up freaks! Guess that makes me a little wh0re too! LMAO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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