Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How does one become a male model?

ChrizZ

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Hi,

I'm thinking of becoming a male model. I'd like to earn some money on the side. Anybody in the modeling business and can give me some tips?

thx in advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Bates

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Becoming a male model is fairly difficult, but if you follow these steps you should make it. Stand next to a mirror, then turn your head facing the mirror, furrow your eyebrows, suck in your cheeks and pucker your lips. Make sure you're wearing a faggy shirt too. Check's in the mail.
 

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ya practice giving a banana a blow job.
youll need it to succeed as a male model ;)
 

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Become gay...or at least metrosexual, and you will have a good chance at achieving your goal. Find some way to lower your testosterone.

Why not become a hair stylist, or a male masseuse? Much better hours.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrizZ

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well, I usually get rated 9 or higher on hotornot. I don't think it really means anything though. How much money does the average male model make and is it worth the effort?
 

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ChrizZ said:
well, I usually get rated 9 or higher on hotornot. I don't think it really means anything though. How much money does the average male model make and is it worth the effort?
I have a friend that's gay, and he models. It pays, but not enough... My friend still works as a receptionist on the side because male modeling doesn't pay enough... Only a small percentage make it big.

Get those chiseled 6-pack abs.. Get nice skin.. Some cool hair.. some gay-looking clothing, and bam.. you have yourself a shot.

I used to want to become a model, but it's not something that I think I'd want to be in anymore after learning more about the industry.

I think the term metrosexual is so stupid, and was created by the fashion marketers to entice more straight guys into buying designer clothing. Several girls have asked me if I was metrosexual, and it really surprises me how people want to stick a label to you just because you like to eat healthy, dress nice, and take pride in your appearance.
 

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I read yesterday that on average models make only $11.83 an hour.

And also you got to be ready to take a cack up your arse.
 

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I dont think hotornot.com has anything do your ability to get into modelling...I usually rate around 9.5 on there for my fitness/promo shots, but I could never model. My gf is a model and she says there's lotsa BS in the industry if you go thru an agency. She says most agencies are all about sucking money outta you. I'm not sure how guys get into bigger shoots, etc, but with female models, you'll usualy have to do some TFP's (time for print) shoots prior to actually getting paid work. TFPs do add to your portfolio however.

If you're into makin money off your looks...consider stripping. As a male entertainer you can make good cash on the side, and you'll love your job!

Primary criteria to do this I think is in your build...make sure your body is better than 90% of the male population, which given how outta shape your average dude is, shouldn't be hard. You can obviously do your job without being that inshape obviously, but if you wanna get more work it helps to look your best!
 

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I used to date a girl who was a fashion design exec in NYC. I went to a few shoots with her. You'd be surprised how average looking a lot of real models are in person, they just have a certain look that pleases a camera.

I think the term metrosexual is so stupid, and was created by the fashion marketers to entice more straight guys into buying designer clothing. Several girls have asked me if I was metrosexual, and it really surprises me how people want to stick a label to you just because you like to eat healthy, dress nice, and take pride in your appearance.
It was actually coined as a derogatory term, I don't think guys strive for the metrosexual label.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Suicide said:
It was actually coined as a derogatory term, I don't think guys strive for the metrosexual label.
You could have fooled me
 

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Why so much hate in this thread?

Anyway Op I guess in order to become a male model you have to be already in the womb while you main features are under development, that is the critical check you have to pass...no way someone with woody allen's genetic can be a model no matter how hard he works.
 

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Hi,

I'm thinking of becoming a male model. I'd like to earn some money on the side. Anybody in the modeling business and can give me some tips?

thx in advance.
modelmayhem.com

It's a free site that's like facebook but for wannabe and current models to advertise themselves. They also have a forum, (like this one) where you can get advice from other models.
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting modeling gigs (unless you're an 11 out of 10 and people flock to work with you) is a full time thing. In the beginning, you have to do a lot of trades (photos, for working with the photographer) and a lot of free shoots, just to expand your portfolio. It's good and bad, because when you work for free you can get photos to show other...the bad is, of course, it's free work.

You have to have a real passion for it, because it can be tedious work just finding gigs. Shooting in different styles is important because it shows versatility and that's something I strongly recommend. Good luck!

Edit: Oh, this thread started in NOV 2007. Well, anyone looking to get into modeling should read this thread anyways :p
 

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and yeah, I think this is the second thread I've posted on that was resurrected by the same poster....gotta start watching that guy! :)

Anyway, modelmayhem has photographers on it as well advertising or trying to break into the biz. A lot of them will do TFP if they're looking to build their portfolios. It's actually a great way to get professional photos done for free even if you're not trying to be a model.

Just be careful, some of those photographers are either 1) only looking to photograph women, because they want to get into their pants, or 2) only looking to photograph men, because they want to get into their pants. (and I'm not referring to women photographers)

Like anything else, you just need to watch yourself.
 
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