"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How does not pushing past a "boyfriend disclaimer", convey a lack of confidence?

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iqqi said:
Yes, why, why WHY!??

WHY does she still have friends!?

How insane, how ridiculous, how downright disrespectful of that lying ****!

WHY does she still go out and have a life?!

She should be sitting at home knitting quilts EVERY NIGHT For the rest of her life now that she has a "boyfriend"! Because everyone knows the only reason a woman leaves the house in the name of "fun" and "entertainment", it is to find some other guy to fvck!

HOW DARE she be around other males of the species without YOU there to make SURE she doesn't spread those legs that are YOURS now?

Lol.

Not much has changed 'round these parts.

I don't believe anyone with any kind of confidence believes this crap.
Oh, Iqqi... Iqqi, Iqqi, Iqqi...

You've so missed the point of RT's post with that remark. If you bothered to read the next paragraph, and the rest as well, you'd have understood he never meant that first one seriously...

Nobody around here believes their GF's aren't entitled to their own life. Your response clearly shows how you look at these boards and the people on it, and that this view is clearly wrong.

Wrong.

*sigh*
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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IQQI, there's a literary device called 'establishing a premise', I suggest you look it up. The context of that premise could be valid or invalid depending upon the assertion of the entire article, but this requires one read through the entire article in order to make that comprehension.

However, as ever typical, you look for what's distasteful to you and assume it's the entire point. But since you always seem to need an oversimplification to understand most anything, allow me to explain. The point of the OP wasn't whether or not women shouldn't be allowed off their boyfriend's leashes or have their independent souls crushed in loving, slavish adoration for them; it was about women using a boyfriend disclaimer and the underlying confusion men experience from it.
 
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