Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How does "No Fap" help you get quality chicks?

skinnyguy

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Iceberg said:
Eh, i still think he's cool.

He's just making fun of many of the ridiculous rules people blindly follow on this site.

I have nothing against "no fap" if it makes someone feel better about himself. There's nothing wrong with learning a bit of discipline and self control. But reality is, you'd have a difficult time finding stories of "I went no fap, and all of a sudden I have 5 new dates lined up every week!"

I could go on about the "Alpha/Beta" stuff or the "you need muscles to get chicks" stuff, but I dont feel like debating it. Point is...some of the philosophies here need to be challenged, and if HumbleNinja is poking a bit of fun at this stuff...hey, at least I'm entertained.
Excellent response. I think the discipline part is really important - it's easy to slip and go back to fapping if you're in a rut, but just training your mind not to is important even if you're not getting laid instantly.

And yes, we could debate alpha/beta all day, but we'll never get anywhere because people here are so stuck to their beliefs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's ok to whack off at times, but you can't just go a month without whacking off and some quality girl suddenly wants to date you. Does not work like that.
 

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I get anxiety if I fapped the day before and I see a girl I am attracted too .. happens all the time. Otherwise I feel like I can approach Britney Spears when Im on day 7.
 
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