How does game change after you've had sex?

[wonderer]

How does game change after youve f*cked her? Does it change at all?

F*cked some girl last weekend fri and sat. We had sex 6 times, she said she came came 3-4 times one of the sessions. I f*cked the **** out of her and she gets wet when we talk about it.

But I dont know what to do now? Do I do what I was doing before when I was building attraction? Or is game different?

 

[VladPatton]

Just maintain your frame, and it'll keep her attraction up. Be cool, don't chump out and you'll do ok for a long time. You're also in the honeymoon stage, so drive that locomotive right into the woods, man!

 

[wonderer]

Just maintain your frame, and it'll keep her attraction up. Be cool, don't chump out and you'll do ok for a long time. You're also in the honeymoon stage, so drive that locomotive right into the woods, man!

Thanks! Any other opinions guys?

 

[El Suave]

Don't become too available. I've done that and crashed the whole thing.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Why does that mess things up? Wouldnt you want to see her as much as you want?

 

[El Suave]

Why does that mess things up? Wouldnt you want to see her as much as you want?

She still needs to chase you a little in order for her feelings to develop for you. It takes time, a little bit of push-pull for that. If you are available all the time, she will start to think you have no other options. She needs to feel like she is competing with other women to lock you down. You will then be on her mind all the time. :yes:

 

[wonderer]

thanks guys. last bump

 

[TenOfSpades]

I honestly don't understand the whole keep frame type advice. That has literally been my problem. I am more on the relationship wanting side of things for the main reason of having poon on tap and not having to wait till I get some more.

The issue I always run into is the girls always tell me they do not feel loved or I dont have emotions all that type of stuff. Basically I am not affectionate. This leads to them either being emotionally well and they just walk away or they become even more clingy and get driven insane.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Look at what the AFC does upon getting laid. He acts like he is now in possession of the last vagina on earth and must protect it from other d!cks by any means necessary. He'll text the girl constantly, and whine if she doesn't immediately respond, thereby losing the frame.

So keeping the frame is just as much about what you don't do, as it is what you do.

 

[gravityeyelids]

In short, you're good as gravy. A lot of the mind games and sh!t tests go away because you both know you're attracted to each other and want to fvck each other. I find I get more relaxed and confident after because I feel I have "won" the girl. It's good that you fvcked her well, because if the sex is boring..well thats not a good thing usually (unless you come back and fvck the sh!t out of her next time)

But you cannot slip up at all. Don't grow complacent. Don't be overly attached or available. This "long game" is something that takes a while for people to develop. Anyone with a moderate amount of game can bang a chick. It's a whole different ballgame and skillset to keep her interested for months and keep her in check and keep her respecting you and liking you. This is where your lifestyle choices and interests will pay off. Hopefully, as she gets to know you more and peels away the layers of the onion, she will find an interesting, well-rounded, fun, exciting man who is grounded in his own reality.

Keep the sex interesting. Do not fall into the "okay-it's time to have sex missionary style-okay-first-foreplay-okay-now-the-actual-sex-okay-that-was-fun-now-its-time-to-eat-routine". Make it interesting, switch up positions, have sex in public places, pull her hair, bite her, use toys, do whatever...just keep it fresh and you'll be good.