How does anyone get serious with a girl who's the "flirty" type??

[drumr2]

I was just reading the Hooters thread and got to wondering about girls like that. There are plenty of them out there, and I've never been attracted to those types. I just wonder how a girl who is otherwise flirtatious, cute, sweet, touch-feely with literally EVERY guy they see....how the hell does a girl like this ever get an keep a serious boyfriend?

Secondly, how does a guy take a girl like this seriously without being an AFC? How does a guy know if she's truuly into him if it's obvious to him that she's that way with everybody.


Seems facinating that these types of chicks EVER get and keep a serious NON-AFC guy.

Hmmm........

 

[drumr2]

Also, I've heard that girls like this really suffer from low self-esteem, and probably couldn't handle a REAL guy anyway.

 

[Ridingthelightning]

Those girls can't handle a real man because they're not a real woman. In my experience, flirty girls are the result of a lack of paternal or fatherly attention. In my experience flirty girls come from broken homes. Its a shame they're how they are, they have no control over what happens with their parents. But it is their fault that they choose to act the way they do. Noted that every girl with divorced parents that I've met hasn't acted this way, but every flirty girl has come from a broken home.
I simply don't waste my time with that type of girl, but if I ever get a chance I tell them exactly what they need to do.

 

[CGE333]

By making yourself scarce and being a challenge. Just make sure that everyime you get together she has an awesome time- never underestimate the power of fun- after the date maek yourself scarce because you are busy and have a lot of women that want to date you. Make her start to miss you and wonder if you are going to call her before you actually do.

 

[backbreaker]

trust me when I say they are really not worth it. I would date a stripper before I dated a girl like this (again)

first, they DO more than likely come from bad homes (I came from a broken home, nothing wrong with that if your parents still do a good job of rasing you. Most kids today come from broken homes) which means they have somme seriousl self esteem issues. They are not actual flirts, they are seeking approval. It's not really much you can do, even if you are a DJ because it has nothing to do with her wanting you, it has to do with her mind telling her she needs to get all of these men's approval.


Also, just that. The flirting. There are too many woman out to focus on one like this. Then I am with my friends and she has her hands on everyone else, I look like I can't control my GF.

It's just isn't worth it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You guys aren't serious are you? You are talking about you saw while she was working at Hooters! IT'S HER JOB TO BE FLIRTATIOUS!!! She's there to make chumps spend more money, plain and simple.

What's worse is that you guys think that just because a woman has a particular persona at work, you think that she is that way all the time or that she can not control herself. My question to you is why does it bother you so much if a woman is outgoing and flirtatious? Have you ever considered that if you date someone that has that persona, that it opens the doors wide for you to be equally flirtatious?

Guys, get a grip, if a flirtatious woman is out of your DJ league, so be it, but don't rag on her if she has game. Don't hate the player, get your own d@mn game!

 

[backbreaker]

first of all, we were talking about flirtatious woman in GENERAL, not the ones that work at hooters. I will be pissed if I went to hooters and my waiter WASN'T flirting with me, hell that is what i paid for.


Also, it's one thing to be nice, but it's a nother to be a flirt. You can date them if you have the patience to put up with them, which I don't.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by Ridingthelightning
Those girls can't handle a real man because they're not a real woman. In my experience, flirty girls are the result of a lack of paternal or fatherly attention. In my experience flirty girls come from broken homes. Its a shame they're how they are, they have no control over what happens with their parents. But it is their fault that they choose to act the way they do. Noted that every girl with divorced parents that I've met hasn't acted this way, but every flirty girl has come from a broken home.
I simply don't waste my time with that type of girl, but if I ever get a chance I tell them exactly what they need to do.

WORD. These girls are not emotionally mature so they keep using high school methods to attract people.. being touchy feely (does not mean she likes you) or sending flirt/sexual messages. If she grabs your weewee or grabs (not spanks) your butt then you know she likes you. Yeah, I agree with the person that said "be a challenge" and "aloof" to respond to these girls.

However, if your ego cannot take these kind of flirty girls.. just avoid them entirely.