"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sorry if this is annoying but any help would be great. I know some of you hate to hear the "too big" argument. But seriously when I look through Muscle&Fitness some of ads show guys like this and I just think it looks disgusting and I never want to look that way. Mostly because I think it looks weird when your chest is three times as wide as your waist.

http://www.posedown.de/specials/2002/2002-10-bodybuilder-mathias-meixner/l/bodybuilder_IMG_0082.jpg


But then I came across this picture of Adrian Peterson and its the first big person that didn't look freakish. He's got massive biceps but he in no way looks abnormal. How would I train to ATTEMPT to get the body type of Adrian Peterson?

http://images.burntorangenation.com/images/admin/adrianpeterson.jpg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Everyone who says they don't want to get "too big" from weightlifting have absolutely no idea how much work it takes to get "too big".

From a quick look he looks like has some muscle imbalances, while I am pretty sure he's trained pretty well considering he's a professional football player, but his arms look too big for the rest of the body. Maybe he needs it for whatever he does, I don't know.

Do you strength train? If not, start strength training. There have been lots of threads similar to yours.
Read and apply:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444 - Exercise
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134782 - Diet
 

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Go to ironaddicts.com if you are truly serious about getting really big like that. Get IA to train you.
 
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Dude, Adrian Peterson is an animal.. But you need to take in to consideration the fact that all he does is train for his job, which is to be a RB in the NFL. It's gonna sound really cliche' but those who do the work reap the rewards. Also, be advised he has a Strength and Conditioning team as well as a Nutritionist, and he is training for short bursts of energy. I would assume he does a ton of heavy Compound lifts such as Bench, Squat, Deads, Clean and Press, Snatch, and Arm Work too..

Just hit it hard and the results will come your way..

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bud_2005 said:
Sorry if this is annoying but any help would be great. I know some of you hate to hear the "too big" argument. But seriously when I look through Muscle&Fitness some of ads show guys like this and I just think it looks disgusting and I never want to look that way. Mostly because I think it looks weird when your chest is three times as wide as your waist.

http://www.posedown.de/specials/2002/2002-10-bodybuilder-mathias-meixner/l/bodybuilder_IMG_0082.jpg
um, what picture are you looking at? his waist is significantly wider than his chest. now, his lats, all spread out like that, are significantly wider, but he's also pumped, stretched and posing, he won't look like that standing around in an Under Armor shirt (as in your other pic). you're comparing apples and oranges.

also, his bodyfat is ridiculously low, and his complexion is not favorable. and both of them are probably using significant chemical enhancement. so before you worry about getting "too big"........ :yawn:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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