Well it common DJ knowledge that as soon as a woman knows she has a guy (in the early stages) her interest level generally takes a significant 180. So my question is how does the woman know...is it particular behaviour or is a six sense thing. What are some of the things guys can do to prevent it from happening. I know the general response is "to spin more plates". Personally I think that this is an immature solution as it doesn't fix the problem inside a man. A man should be able to have enough emotional maturity to date a single woman without the woman owning him. I think this is what women want. Basically a man who wants and desires them but doesn't need them. You can superfically create this effect by spinning plates (much like gaining confidence through alcohol) but I think this is not going to help the guy over the long term.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How does a woman know
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
I think when you find the one you should be with, none of these rules apply. You can be yourself and not have to worry about "running game" to keep a woman interested.
HOWEVER, in the meantime the only thing you can do is let her know (without saying it) that she can lose you at anytime because you are a hot commodity. Women want you, men fear you. She is LUCKY to even be talking to you.
HOWEVER, in the meantime the only thing you can do is let her know (without saying it) that she can lose you at anytime because you are a hot commodity. Women want you, men fear you. She is LUCKY to even be talking to you.
I actually think this is a common misconception. You definitely want to always be yourself, but don't get too comfortable thinking you've got everything on lock down because that usually leads to complacency and before you know it things have taken a turn for the worse.kingwilliam said:I think when you find the one you should be with, none of these rules apply. You can be yourself and not have to worry about "running game" to keep a woman interested.
Women will always test you, hell ALL people will test you, it is a constant. Never forget about the "rules", they work in all kinds of situations with all kinds of people.
This made me think about one of my Aunts and my Uncle who she's married to. They've been together for like 30 years or something and she never stopped pushing boundaries with him. It was a rare sight, but my Aunt was ranting about something and pushed him to the point where he raised his voice and basically put her in her place, it was shocking to me because I had never seen him do that (it seemed that my Uncle would avoid confrontation), but I guess he's been the MAN all these years.
Are you kidding?kingwilliam said:I think when you find the one you should be with, none of these rules apply. You can be yourself and not have to worry about "running game" to keep a woman interested.
Once you set the hook if you release tension from the line the fish gets away.
This is the biggest mistake men make with women in relationships.
Re:How does a woman know?
Firstly, may I commend you on your English. It is better then some English people!
I fould your article very interesting and an eye opener. One of my hobbies is travelling, and not only seeing but immersing myself in another countries culture. (I speak seven languages due to this, all with regional accents).
I think the problem with Iran is UK and USA politics and media and bad advertising! Russia has also had bad press (although not as bad as Iran) and you wouldn't believe you were visiting the same country you'd heard about and expected.
I think eventually, when the lies in politics catch up with the bullies, war crimes will be justly punished, and Iran can become a popular tourist location is clearly deserves to be.
I have some Iranian friends here (in UK) and they voice simular opinions to you.
I'm interested in other responses you get to this, and your comments on them. All the best
Firstly, may I commend you on your English. It is better then some English people!
I fould your article very interesting and an eye opener. One of my hobbies is travelling, and not only seeing but immersing myself in another countries culture. (I speak seven languages due to this, all with regional accents).
I think the problem with Iran is UK and USA politics and media and bad advertising! Russia has also had bad press (although not as bad as Iran) and you wouldn't believe you were visiting the same country you'd heard about and expected.
I think eventually, when the lies in politics catch up with the bullies, war crimes will be justly punished, and Iran can become a popular tourist location is clearly deserves to be.
I have some Iranian friends here (in UK) and they voice simular opinions to you.
I'm interested in other responses you get to this, and your comments on them. All the best
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This isn’t knowledge, it is a misinterpretation. If a woman rejects a guy once it becomes obvious to her that he likes her, then she was never that interested. Most likely she was just playing him, or using him, or just being nice. If a woman is highly attracted to a guy, her attraction and interest will only rise once if becomes obvious to her that the guy is interested.window said:Well it common DJ knowledge that as soon as a woman knows she has a guy (in the early stages) her interest level generally takes a significant 180.