"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how does a woman keep her man from cheating

Trainwreck

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The saying is that men cheat for ego, women cheat for emo. I've seen men cheat on their partners, but still manage the relationship like nothing happened. If a woman cheats then she has most likely backed out of the relationship and it is pretty much done at this point. Given this, how does a woman actually keep her man loyal to her. OR? Are they just attracted to men that possess the traits for cheating(opportunistic).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SadoMasochrist

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Draining my balls every morning and night. Dressing like a prostitute at home and acting as my own personal *****. Keeping herself in check.
 

AlphaNate

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She doesn't. Men cheat for the same reason women cheat: they want to.

The partner's behaviors may have influenced it, but everyone is responsible for his or her own actions.
 

devilkingx2

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depends on the guy, generally being a good girlfriend who has lots of fun sex and is a pleasure to deal with will ward off any cheating, but just like many girls are just wh0res, many guys are azzholes who'll cheat just because they can
 
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