How does a REAL MAN handle disrespect from women?

[lokariototal]

I feel girls don't usually respect me as I deserve. They always treat me like, a second rate option. I think that's one of my problems, and that's why they always say they just want to be friends. When I tell them if they want to date me, they seem to be like umm yeah maybe someday. I feel im not being treated as much as i am worth. What should I do when she, doesn't answer my calls, when she's always postponing dates, when she always says umm just friends, and stuff like that? How do i get them to treat as i feel i deserve?

 

[RedZone]

Don't ask to date her, tell her you are going to be dating her. She probably waiting for a guy who will take charge.

 

[Igetit!]

Number 1: I WHOLE-HEARTEDLY agree with Redzone

I feel girls don't usually respect me as I deserve. They always treat me like, a second rate option. I think that's one of my problems, and that's why they always say they just want to be friends. When I tell them if they want to date me, they seem to be like umm yeah maybe someday. I feel im not being treated as much as i am worth.

You say these girls treat you "second rate". Well,are you coming off "second rate" to them?


Girls treat you the way they see you treating yourself.


They wouldn't treat you second rate unless they "sensed" something in your behavior towards them that made them think they could get away with it.


Could you give an example of how in general you approach a girl? Include what you'd normally say.


PLEASE...PLEASE try to be as detailed as you can.


The solution to your problem will be a change in YOUR BEHAVIOR,but before that can occur,we need to know the thoughts behind the behavior.



The thing of a girl telling she just wants to be friends is easy to solve.

I personally already know the answer to that one.




If you truely want results instead of just wanting to "vent" like some members do,you'll need to be open to change.