"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How does a REAL MAN handle disrespect from women?

lokariototal

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I feel girls don't usually respect me as I deserve. They always treat me like, a second rate option. I think that's one of my problems, and that's why they always say they just want to be friends. When I tell them if they want to date me, they seem to be like umm yeah maybe someday. I feel im not being treated as much as i am worth. What should I do when she, doesn't answer my calls, when she's always postponing dates, when she always says umm just friends, and stuff like that? How do i get them to treat as i feel i deserve?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RedZone

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Don't ask to date her, tell her you are going to be dating her. She probably waiting for a guy who will take charge.
 

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Number 1: I WHOLE-HEARTEDLY agree with Redzone


lokariototal said:
I feel girls don't usually respect me as I deserve. They always treat me like, a second rate option. I think that's one of my problems, and that's why they always say they just want to be friends. When I tell them if they want to date me, they seem to be like umm yeah maybe someday. I feel im not being treated as much as i am worth.
You say these girls treat you "second rate". Well,are you coming off "second rate" to them?


Girls treat you the way they see you treating yourself.


They wouldn't treat you second rate unless they "sensed" something in your behavior towards them that made them think they could get away with it.


Could you give an example of how in general you approach a girl? Include what you'd normally say.


PLEASE...PLEASE try to be as detailed as you can.


The solution to your problem will be a change in YOUR BEHAVIOR,but before that can occur,we need to know the thoughts behind the behavior.



The thing of a girl telling she just wants to be friends is easy to solve.

I personally already know the answer to that one.




If you truely want results instead of just wanting to "vent" like some members do,you'll need to be open to change.
 
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