"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how does a PUA avoid from falling in love?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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simple. until you've had mutually mind blowing sex with one after banging several, you keep in mind that women are experience machines and not worth your mental resources in that way.
 
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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Falling in love is not something evil and to be avoided at all costs. The PUA who avoids it does so because he knows he is no natural and his true colours would be shown. The natural does not because his 'true colours' are still alpha and attractive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't be a PUA. Be a real man who dates women. Pick up artist and people who identify as such are only focused on the very very tiny first part of the game, meeting a woman and getting laid. But that's just step one on the check list. Because they haven't developed as a full person they don't know what to do besides pump and dump...they have no concept of a team and team management.

Having a team (several girls, or plates) generally keeps you from the whole oneitis, infatuation, falling in love thing. After a while of doing that, you start to learn how to control your emotions. It's okay to feel something for a woman. It's okay to care for a woman. It's not okay to put your own interest in second or third place and to sacrifice yourself for a woman.

Experience is how you keep from falling in love.
 
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