How does a mature man meet woman?

[lexa]

Would any please help me? I am at a loss, it seems whatever I do is just get LJBF.

I know first and foremost is to improve myself, i.e have a more alpha attitude, work out, get a higher status job, get a better place to live and then improve conversation skills, storytelling, negging, kino.

Am I missing anything?

In my 20s I was a complete anti social person, but from late 20s I start to have a few more friends, most of them are early 20s females from work (bless that I look young and still do) but they are all like 10 years younger then me and the only GF (for a 2 month) I had was also a colleague.

The latest girl I was hanging out with was my age, ex coworker, very hot etc, probably could have close if I had more game, either way, she was obv LBJF me, and I am currently NC at the moment.

So problem is I have trouble meeting new girls, dating is no. game after all. But how does process the work? Do you see a girl, see who gives you eye contact, approach and then close, ask for number and then day 2 etc?
Night time outting such as clubbing terrified me to be honest. How hard is it to close during day game?

 

[abe0]

After self improvement...the most important thing is confidence. Then you will find yourself automatically chatting with women at the store, groceries, starbucks, gas station....anywhere. Do it with everyone!!!!!! Men, old, young...sooner or later you will not look at hot babe as a hot babe...but just another person and thus your fears diminish.
I have tried internet, hiking groups, dancing groups, going clubs, fast dating.....the thing is just to force yourself to go out and do it. Read everything on this site.....but use it only as a guide and not the bible truth. Everywoman is different and if you use the same techniques what might be confident and ****y to one....is arrogant and jurk to another.
I was in your shoes after a 20+ marriage...it took me a while to become a man again and have enough nerves to approach and talk to women. It takes time....talk to everyone. Never miss an apportunity ...a woman with a nice car, a dog, nice hair...find something to talk about ....you never know what the outcome is going to be. Be ready for rejection and develop a thick skin....you will be fine.
My best, Abe

 

[Epimanes]

Read kill your desperation by pook and be a man. Its in the dj bible. Its pretty much all you need to read from it.

Other than that stop worrying about the approach. Just walk up to a woman (anywhere such as standing to cross the rd, at the coffee shop, in the department store when ur shoppin for those sharp cloths in fact ask the hottest chick u see to help you pick something) your attracted to (hopefully you look your best and smell nice) make some small talk by noticing something about her. If she smiles and says thanks (you notice said thing and compliment it) touch her arm as you emphasize it. Don't talk to her with intentions to fvck.. Just be fun. Stop worrying about getting laid and you will likely get laid. Go with the flow and make casual touches when you speak to her as the conversation flows. Make sure all or most of your replies to her are open ended so she has to keep talking! Smile and nod.. Repeat back to her what she said in slightly different words to validate she was heard. And continue to escelate the convo.

Its not rocket science. Its just a woman.. If she is receptive she will seemingly enjoy the convo.. If not her body language will tell you and you can kindly back out (tell her it was nice meeting her and end it before it gets awkward) ask for her number if its going good and suggest going out for coffee or drinks on another day.

Easy... So get out there. Stop worrying what she thinks. I can't game anyone but my wife but I occasionaly practice to see if it works since I work with so many people and then game my wife and escelate. Hook line and sinker. Boom!

Worst case she says no... So what! no Big deal..

Epi