How does a guy ask a HB out through EMAIL?

[samstown]

Hey Guys,

Here's a quick back story: I started working in a sales office. I began noticing my drop dead gorgeous, blonde colleague who happened to work in the same office. We went on a sales call together, once, and had a pretty good time. I wanted to invite her along to get drinks but feared over that potentially awkward situation if you date people in the same office. Regardless, my time at this place was very brief and I decided to resign. So I left- but I forgot all about the blonde until I noticed an internal email that was sent to everybody from the office- her email address was on it.

Golden question: I want to email her and ask her out but Im not sure if its the best idea since I found her email from an internal office email. What do you guys think? Should I just go for it since im outta' there and what's a playful way of asking her out through email?

 

[SeymourCake]

Go ask her out face to face

 

[allbeef]

Dude, just don't do what I did once. Sent a hot chick a pick of my penis at work. Thought it would turn her on. Never heard from her again. So I sent her a different one. After the second picture was sent I received a threatening letter from her lawyer. Not good.

 

[Jariel]

I've done this kind of thing a lot as I've been using Facebook to get in touch with girls from my past, friends of friends and even just vague acquaintainces who are hot.

Just drop her a quick mail saying hi and asking how she's doing, just to see if she's feeling you. If she replies enthusiastically, just swap a couple of emails to break the ice, build a little rapport, then at some point leave her your number. Say something like, "I won't have access to my emails the next few days, but if you want to drop me a text, it'll be good to hear from you."

If she texts you, then that's a great sign. Text her back a few times and either call her or ask her for a drink via text.

I believe a big mistake guys make when gaming a woman is trying to close the deal as fast as possible. This makes a lot of women feel uncomfortable, doesn't give them chance to think about dating you and when they're put on the spot they'll usually say no or, if they agree, will probably flake. Take time to build a bit of rapport and raise her interest levels. By sending friendly emails and texts, she's going to start to wonder if you're into her, she's going to get curious and you're going to be on her mind.

Of course, you can go ahead and ask her out straight away and she may accept, but I have found it more effective gaming girls before asking them out.

 

[runner83]

Dude, just don't do what I did once. Sent a hot chick a pick of my penis at work. Thought it would turn her on. Never heard from her again. So I sent her a different one. After the second picture was sent I received a threatening letter from her lawyer. Not good.

Ha ha, yes don't do that!

Jariel's advice is good.

My only suggested change is to get her number instead, rather than giving her yours.

Swap some e-mails to get familiar, then just ask for it

e.g

"Well, good to chat again, we should catch up some time. What's your number?"

If she is into you, then she will give it to you.

If not, at least you have your answer and can move on.