How does a chick know if it's a date or not

[JPlaya]

I asked her to go to this restaurant and she said yes I think. I've never been anywhere with her before, so what do?

 

[ARrocket]

Are you in high school?

You have to make your intentions clear through your ACTIONS.

Tell me:

Have you been physical with her? That could be sex, could be kissing, could be playful touching...you know what I mean.

Have you had flirtatious conversations with her that talk about sex/sex-related topics?

If both of those answers are "no," you are doing things completely the wrong way. If those answers are "yes," she'll know it's a date.

 

[blueline]

Nothing. If she wants it to be a date, she'll make it non-verbally obvious on the date that she wants you to make advances on her.

 

[JPlaya]

well it looks like I'm ******* than

 

[PapiChulo]

ARocker is on the money. They know automatically if you did your thing right (sexual threat). Or she may ask what you mean if she rejected you previously or hinted that you are not even considered, that's to make sure she is safe- no moves for you. I ve tried it on a chick it was like sexing a tree, thanks to her cold resistance, and the sexual talk would not go anywhere. Thats an extreme example with this chick, but even she could warm up to me when isolated ( too bad she would not let me).