"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you consider yourself a cache when she is HB9 and has 10 orbiters around her, she earns more money than you and she does psychotherapy and counseling sh!t that you can't even 'game' her or apply the JD technique educated here?

Walkaway or pursue it at all cost and see where it leads? I've just started talking to this girl and she's more than what i can describe as a plate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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way2smart

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And you do realize that all those psychotherapists apply typical AFC stuff when they do family counseling?
Just watch episode of Dr.Phill and you will know what I'm talking about. Dr. Phill is probably responsible for converting large percentage of normal guys to typical AFCs.

So, yes, everything you learn here, will apply and will definitely work on your psychotherapist.
 

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way2smart said:
And you do realize that all those psychotherapists apply typical AFC stuff when they do family counseling?
Just watch episode of Dr.Phill and you will know what I'm talking about. Dr. Phill is probably responsible for converting large percentage of normal guys to typical AFCs.

So, yes, everything you learn here, will apply and will definitely work on your psychotherapist.
Dr. Phil cracks me up. I seriously doupt any relationship advice ever resulted in anything lasting.

Dr. Phil is an entertainer... anyone that goes on that show, or follows his advice might just as well get advice from Carrot Top.
 

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Ok. Heres the deal. Be yourself. She will apprciate authenticity and manliness. NOTHING else to say. Do that annd you win. Harder than you think though. Be authentic in EVERY way and you WILL sleep with her. I have a very strong backround here. Trust me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she's in to that stuff, she's firstly likely to have no-END of issues herself and secondly going to be psycho-analysing you from the very moment you meet.

Trouble is, everyone on the internet is a part-time pop-psych-major these days. But I would recommend guys study a bit of the classic theories and mix with a bit of philosophy. Women go weak at the knees when guys can beat them at their own game.
 

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I met a counsellor at a bar once and we ended up f*cking in a nearby park, and get this - she wanted me to grab her throat while we did it. Rape fantasy I guess.

A mate of mine married a psychologist and she let him take her to a swingers club and **** her on a table in front of the whole club.

So moral lol the story, game them like any other girl because in the sack they are.
 
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