"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you yall cope with the bullshvt from women

SirFratserlot

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And still be able to maintain confidence. Srs, its always a failure in the short or long run. I feel like shvt right now and I see multiple topics similar to whst happened to me. It just makes me want to quit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr Wright

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Simple. The more women you in circulation, the less you care. Being able to walk away is very powerful.
 

Who Dares Win

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Just dont take them seriously and dont invest anything in them, use the same attitude you would use on a beer pong match.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
And still be able to maintain confidence. Srs, its always a failure in the short or long run. I feel like shvt right now and I see multiple topics similar to whst happened to me. It just makes me want to quit.
you know most of the people on SS should stop b!tching like a cvnt and get a pair of balls in their sacks...

we see people saying "ah i wanna quit,ah i cant handle women ..."
or others "i want to fVck a blonde HB8 but i wanna do it while i sit here behind my laptop, playing WOW and munching donuts"
^ REALLY? im not talking about the OP ,but some posters actually have that mentality.what do they have to offer to the girl? a limp d!ck from hours of fapping in their mommas basement :cuss:

also when i see a pic of the same posters, im like "damn....no wonder they don't get laid"
dudes you have to do 4 basic things,
1.GYM
2.hair cut + fashion make over
3.some ball$
4. a life (this is the most important one)

now to all the whiners....go get bent over a monkey bar and ask your mommy to check if you really have a pen!s or just a long ****or!s :yes:

/end of rant
this is not towards the OP btw....just play it cool man, women are like kids, dont take 'em seriously
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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VladPatton

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You just have to blow them off until the next cute one comes along. When she does, you'll be inspired to game her all over again. Yes, you may need a break to get your head back, but it'll return. The whole secret is to game the ones that you already feel have an interest in you.
 

zinc4

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they are all emotionally retarded...don't take their insults or rejections seriously......it's like taking a kindergartner's insults seriously
 

Cremasta

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First up... you quit, you lose!

Second... find another reason to be confident other than whether or not women talk to you nicely.

Is there something that you do well? Focus on that. If there isn't, then Switch's four basics are a good start, especially numbers 1 and 4.
 

NewAndImproved

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You're not good with women yet, then, OP.

People talk about abundance, which is definitely part of it. The more women you have in your rotation, the less precious each becomes.

But the other side of abundance and experience is simply that you trust the process not the result. A good freethrow shooter in the NBA doesn't panic for several reasons:

1. He's been there many times before and has made way more shots that he's missed. He got good by practicing far more than Shaq and D12 do.

2. He privileges his mechanics over everything else (trash talk, fan chatter, important moment in the game). He just goes through his routine and shoots.

When you're new at this, you're not confident in your abilities at all. Once you get used to the mechanics of attracting a whole bunch of women and knowing that you can reproduce those results again and again, you'll have confidence.
 

Down Low

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You'll grow out of those feelings.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kbomb

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Its you, not the women. Understand that first and then you'll be able to overcome.
 

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The easiest solution to her rudeness (real or imaginary) is to do nothing. If she says something you don't like, or even if it might have been sort of rude, you don't reply. Wait her out. It's usually the next day. Or 2 hours later. If it takes 3 weeks you wait. She will write back. When she does, never mention the incident. If she apologizes, accept her apology and never mention it again. If she doesn't reply, her interest level was too low for it to matter.

This process trains them to only do things you like, the way you train a cat or dog. Reward good behavior, do not respond to bad behavior.
 

Smell The Glove

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I cope with the bull**** from women by purging emotion and suppressing the ego.

I learn to embrace pure logic. It is not logical to be affected by the emotions of a woman. I draw state from within. I am enough, I do not need a woman to complete me.

Once you reject the idea that you need a woman to feel happy you will find it easier to be less outcome dependent on your interactions with women, which will translate to a more positive response from them.

If you want to quit, then do it, maybe that’s what you really need right now.

Become happy by yourself. Once you attain independent happiness in solitude, you will come across as less needy and this will be more attractive to women
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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