"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do You turn a shy girl to a Open and Wild Biatch?

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ok, i know this girl in my english class.

she is about 7 if i put her on da scale.

well, thing is this girl is real shy, we made a couple of eye contact across the class room before, she looked down immediately and blushed. and plus i figured that she is a shy person from the way she speaks and behaviours around other students.(speaks quietly and blushes whenever a teacher ask her for an answer)

well, i have a smooth opener(since she is from germany, i was going to ask her, the reason she came to NZ.)

But i dont want to scare her off so i Do need you guys opinion on how to handle a shy girl.

So guys how do you open a shy girl to a open and wild(haha) biatch?

p.s. **i have a sort of idea that she may b not interested in me at all since her body language is closed and she didnt pick an idea when i asked her about the weather.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol...yes...boose works.

Nah just approach her. Make her comfortable with your company. This is best done by not jumping in at the deep end but still showing confidence. Make her company welcome....that always opens up shy people. Ask her questions about HER.. Open her up..

Or just go the boose notion.


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xconquerx said:
ok, i know this girl in my english class.

she is about 7 if i put her on da scale.

well, thing is this girl is real shy, we made a couple of eye contact across the class room before, she looked down immediately and blushed. and plus i figured that she is a shy person from the way she speaks and behaviours around other students.(speaks quietly and blushes whenever a teacher ask her for an answer)

well, i have a smooth opener(since she is from germany, i was going to ask her, the reason she came to NZ.)

But i dont want to scare her off so i Do need you guys opinion on how to handle a shy girl.

So guys how do you open a shy girl to a open and wild(haha) biatch?

p.s. **i have a sort of idea that she may b not interested in me at all since her body language is closed and she didnt pick an idea when i asked her about the weather.
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Hey man,

I know exactly what you're going through. My current girlfriend was one of the most shy girls in my school. A lot of my friends were telling me, "Dude, I wouldn't even try going for her, she acts too cold towards all guys. I don't think any guy can get her." (this made it even more interesting, because it was more of a challenge for me)

A few things I did to get this shy girl to become my g/f was:

* Made her feel more comfortable around me. I made her laugh and would say something funny to her about what so-and-so was wearing to school or something stupid I did the other day.

* I teased her about being shy just a little, and try to get her to open up. Basically, let her know it's safe to open up around me. Whenever she'd obviously get shy I'd simple tell her, "Don't be sooo shy! *smile*"

* I touched her arm/shoulder whenever I met her. Made EC whenever I had the chance. Smiled when making EC. The more I did it around her, the more she got used to it and she became comfortable with me.

* Flirting with her a lot helped too. At first she got really shy, she'd turn red and smile and face the floor. So I'd touch her arm and use my, "Don't be shy" line.

* I got her number, and got to know her through text messaging. I asked her out to go bowling... She really opened up. I suck at bowling so she had a higher score than me (pretty sad) but we had a lot of fun. After bowling we walked to the mall and I just bought her a smoothie, and we just walked around. Got a buncha kino in and at one point I was holding her hand.

It has been 2 weeks and she said yes to being my girlfriend. I honestly hope I can learn from this relationship. I mean, going out with a new girl every week is all nice, but I kinda feel like it's time to settle down for a bit.

Hey bro, just sharing what I did to get the girl at my school to open up to me. You can do it too bro! Just make a move! If I didn't make a move on her, then I wouldn't be her boyfriend, and she wouldn't have the pleasure of being my girlfriend.

My next step is to K-close her. It'll be pretty sweet since she's never kissed a guy before. The first kiss is the one that the girls will remember forever ;)

Now go get her man!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just read your post Neon and you have made me want to target a shy girl now....grrr......

Right thats going on the list.

Must game shy girl.

I have bedded 2 girls for their first time....but never first kissed a girl i dont think...


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Tomatoes said:
I just read your post Neon and you have made me want to target a shy girl now....grrr......

Right thats going on the list.

Must game shy girl.

I have bedded 2 girls for their first time....but never first kissed a girl i dont think...


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Haha, well I think gaming a shy chick can be both exciting and challenging! Conqueror, let us know how it goes with her!
 
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lmaooooooooooooo im sooo high i cant type straight

:cuss: :up: :woo: :cheer: :D
 
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I'm gaming a shy girl right now. All the previous advice sounds really good. I'm with Neon about this never been kissed b4 thing. Thats the same with my girl. Her first kiss..... sounds like a fun little conquest:up:
 
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neonbase

you might have been the first guy kissed her, but you are not gonna be the last guy.. and imagine that next time another guy is gonna kiss her and lets say he is a great kisser..than obviously she would remember u:) no worries..that does bot make you special... get it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Trapper said:
neonbase

you might have been the first guy kissed her, but you are not gonna be the last guy.. and imagine that next time another guy is gonna kiss her and lets say he is a great kisser..than obviously she would remember u:) no worries..that does bot make you special... get it?
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Hehe, absolutely bro.. I know I won't be the last to kiss her, but at least I can be the one to give her that first kiss. ;)
 
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porn!!

make her watch some real filthy porn. Something like double penetration.
 
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Uh, alcahol?
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he he... I was thinking "ALCOHOL!!!!!" before I even opened the thread!

Always works.

If it wasn't for alcohol, alot of relationships wouldn't have happened. A lot of people wouldnt get laid as much and some of us might not even be here.

So embrace it, use it!
 
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