"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you turn a chick friend into a pivot?

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I have a chick friend that I want to turn into a pivot / wing-girl. Her purpose would be to help me get other girls. I think it's based on having social proof because I'm with her.

And she's already done a bit of that already. A few months ago I went with her and a couple of her friends to a club in L.A. Even though we didn't dance together due to a misunderstanding of some kind, she did go up to several girls and got them to dance with me.

If I make her my official wing-woman it could really work out in my favor. If I ask her I'm 99% sure she will agree. The questions are; What exactly does a pivot do and how do I "train" her to be as much help as possible?

One issue is that she's only 18 so I can't take her to bars. But there are other venues.

One more thing.
I don't have a clue how to dance with girls in clubs. I danced with my chick friends, friend and she said that she didn't feel anything when we were there. Would it be creepy asking my friend for a lesson or something on how to grind with girls?

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i have a winggirl, we talk about game in a "natural " manner.

grindings pretty simple ,dont try to lead her grinding they hate that, and follow her ass with ur ****. u can touch her arms n stuff when liek its getting good , u can tell when theyre horny they'll get closer etcc.. experience experience. and push pull a little move her hands with ur hands etcccc be sensual.
 

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You could also you know... keep her as a friend so you have another friend. And meet people through her.
 

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What is talking about game in a "natural" manner? I don't know how much of the community I want to expose to her?

Anybody else have any advice?
 

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Back to the front page.

I am disappointed that the term pivot is used pretty frequently but nobody can go into further detail about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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