"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you turn a chick friend into a pivot?

Maxtro

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I have a chick friend that I want to turn into a pivot / wing-girl. Her purpose would be to help me get other girls. I think it's based on having social proof because I'm with her.

And she's already done a bit of that already. A few months ago I went with her and a couple of her friends to a club in L.A. Even though we didn't dance together due to a misunderstanding of some kind, she did go up to several girls and got them to dance with me.

If I make her my official wing-woman it could really work out in my favor. If I ask her I'm 99% sure she will agree. The questions are; What exactly does a pivot do and how do I "train" her to be as much help as possible?

One issue is that she's only 18 so I can't take her to bars. But there are other venues.

One more thing.
I don't have a clue how to dance with girls in clubs. I danced with my chick friends, friend and she said that she didn't feel anything when we were there. Would it be creepy asking my friend for a lesson or something on how to grind with girls?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mcpwn

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i have a winggirl, we talk about game in a "natural " manner.

grindings pretty simple ,dont try to lead her grinding they hate that, and follow her ass with ur ****. u can touch her arms n stuff when liek its getting good , u can tell when theyre horny they'll get closer etcc.. experience experience. and push pull a little move her hands with ur hands etcccc be sensual.
 

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You could also you know... keep her as a friend so you have another friend. And meet people through her.
 

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What is talking about game in a "natural" manner? I don't know how much of the community I want to expose to her?

Anybody else have any advice?
 

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Back to the front page.

I am disappointed that the term pivot is used pretty frequently but nobody can go into further detail about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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