"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you tell her?

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that you wanna smash. theres this chick I know and I can feel da sexual tension. How do I let her know that I wanna beat da breaks off her?:trouble:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You dont.

That is a begginers mistake. Never ask for it.

Go on a couple dates, close them off with kisses, then work from there. I have always had luck with my kiss closes, but it doesnt always lead to "beating the breaks off her."
 

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TheWorldIsNotEnough said it.

DO NOT TELL HER!!!

Go to the bible and read WMS or go to tips and read gunwitch.

Flirt, escalate, bust a move.

Tell her with action, like a man.

JJ
 
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Jay Jay said:
DO NOT TELL HER!!!

Go to the bible and read WMS or go to tips and read gunwitch.

Flirt, escalate, bust a move.

Tell her with action, like a man.

JJ

I like this guy...
 
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