Ive posted about this before but now im wondering how to deal with this image. as i said before girls do think im a d1ckhead usually the ones i dont give the time of day too though. I mean this image has worked in my favor before but recently it has back fired.
I go over this chicks house tonight for a barbecue. ive known her for a long time cause her family is friends with mine. we use to text a little here and there but i came to find out shes just a weird girl overall. im such a d1ck to her. everytime i see her out i completely ignore her, never say hi, she blantantly will be standing next to me and bumping me so i say hi, i dont i just walk away. funny sh!t. When im going to her house she gets on the phone to give me directions. when i get there shes standing outside for me. then we talk to for like 2 minutes. a couple of us went to see a movie and after the movie went back to her house to eat. we're sitting down and i start talking about myspace to my cousin. the girl also has it. so i say her name(shes sitting across the table) and ask her a questoin about myspace. she sits there and doesnt aknolwdege me. i ask her twice still no response. we start laughing cause thats the dumbest thing. noones done that to me ever. in my head i was like wtf weird a$$. i dont know it could be that she wrote me a comment on myspace once and i did not post it.
another quick example is i was gaming another girl for little bit. at first she thought i was basically a d1ck. cause i had a gf and didnt go talk to her before. but we started hanging out and talking later on. i couldve boned but didnt. she took it totally wrong and denied me when i asked her to come home with me she led me on basically. i said that was funny but i probably am not going to talk to you anymore. one week later i try to talk to her cause the night i said that stuff i was drunk. she told other people they came to me and basically she thought i was a huge d1ck. i texted the next week and said hey what are you doing tonight pal? and she didnt reply. i stopped calling/texting and usually she would contact me but its been about 2-3 weeks and she hasnt tried. obviously she thinks a huge d1ck also.
in both these situations i was trying to be nice to them but once i showed that they got their little punch in.
the question here is how do you talk to girls that have that image of you? how do you disarm their b1tch shield and disarm their revenge they want to get on you for being a d1ck to them?
I go over this chicks house tonight for a barbecue. ive known her for a long time cause her family is friends with mine. we use to text a little here and there but i came to find out shes just a weird girl overall. im such a d1ck to her. everytime i see her out i completely ignore her, never say hi, she blantantly will be standing next to me and bumping me so i say hi, i dont i just walk away. funny sh!t. When im going to her house she gets on the phone to give me directions. when i get there shes standing outside for me. then we talk to for like 2 minutes. a couple of us went to see a movie and after the movie went back to her house to eat. we're sitting down and i start talking about myspace to my cousin. the girl also has it. so i say her name(shes sitting across the table) and ask her a questoin about myspace. she sits there and doesnt aknolwdege me. i ask her twice still no response. we start laughing cause thats the dumbest thing. noones done that to me ever. in my head i was like wtf weird a$$. i dont know it could be that she wrote me a comment on myspace once and i did not post it.
another quick example is i was gaming another girl for little bit. at first she thought i was basically a d1ck. cause i had a gf and didnt go talk to her before. but we started hanging out and talking later on. i couldve boned but didnt. she took it totally wrong and denied me when i asked her to come home with me she led me on basically. i said that was funny but i probably am not going to talk to you anymore. one week later i try to talk to her cause the night i said that stuff i was drunk. she told other people they came to me and basically she thought i was a huge d1ck. i texted the next week and said hey what are you doing tonight pal? and she didnt reply. i stopped calling/texting and usually she would contact me but its been about 2-3 weeks and she hasnt tried. obviously she thinks a huge d1ck also.
in both these situations i was trying to be nice to them but once i showed that they got their little punch in.
the question here is how do you talk to girls that have that image of you? how do you disarm their b1tch shield and disarm their revenge they want to get on you for being a d1ck to them?
