"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do YOU stay motivated?

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I've been working out for over 10 years, but I can't seem to stick with it for more than a few months at a time. There have been several instances where I was able to work out long enough to set personal records, but it was like I subconsciously gave up after that. Maybe it's because I've never really experienced any kind of tangible results from being in great shape; I would get the occasional compliment, but nothing that made me want to keep punishing myself 3 times a week.

How do you guys retain the desire to push iron?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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You're probably demotivated because you view it as "Punishing yourself". Words and metaphors have strong impact. Change it to something more empowering, like "Challenging myself".
 

Jitterbug

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I get on a platform and compete 3-4 times a year.
 

Fuglydude

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Like you, I've been lifting over decade. However, I've never taken more than a couple of weeks off.

How do I stay motivated? Simple... accountability. For the past 7-8 years, I've been involved w/ something where my physical ability/appearance, etc. was making me money, or I was competing in something.

My build definitely regressed when I finished stripping and didn't have anything specific to train for. This is the biggest reason I decided to compete in bodybuilding.

Oh ya, Jitter... some new halfass pics for you on my comp. log. I remember you asked for some a while back.
 
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I think that my discontent with my career path may be opposing my desire to become physically elite. It's hard for me to focus on weightlifting when I'm so unhappy with other aspects of my life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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