How do you stay focused on game mindset ?!

[kzar_kzar]

Recently I have plenty of time literally whole day to myself. However I just spent time on going for a run, abit of workout and grab breakfast. Rest is spend on some work related, relatives or friends.

I can literally go out and game the **** out of whole day but I don’t,
I only care to approach when I’m on my way to do something for myself like buying breakfast which is depressing.
I wonder how do you get out just for the sole purpose of looking for potential mates

 

[SW15]

Always be on the lookout for approach options and be ready to approach.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I wonder how do you get out just for the sole purpose of looking for potential mates

By NOT going outside for the sole purpose of hunting cooter. Much as we all enjoy sex, getting sunshine, fresh air, and exercise are just as(if not more)important also

 

[BeExcellent]

By NOT going outside for the sole purpose of hunting cooter. Much as we all enjoy sex, getting sunshine, fresh air, and exercise are just as(if not more)important also

^^^This.

You must understand that your whole attitude comes from a place of LACK. By focusing on lack you set yourself in a negative headspace.

But you can change this mindset. Do things for the enjoyment. Get breakfast to enjoy a good meal somewhere interesting. Be grateful you have the freedom & ability to do that. Your entire vibe & energy will change if you adjust your mindset.

 

[sevbucmash]

You don't sound like you have passions in your life. You gotta have passions and you gotta pursue your passions.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Cold approaching is always going to be a numbers game with a high failure rate. You can either drill that into your head and keep marching on or switch to a different method of meeting women.

 

[BPH]

Just go out to a bar on the weekends with your friends.

It's not hard to find plenty of women to approach, and you don't need to spend hours in your day-to-day looking for these opportunities.

 

[Sophisticator]

I wonder how do you get out just for the sole purpose of looking for potential mates

I'm going out doing my usual things and I bump into a suitable person, I'd be inclined to chat them up and see if there's chemistry, but going out just for chasing skirts sounds depressing.

 

[kzar_kzar]

I'm going out doing my usual things and I bump into a suitable person, I'd be inclined to chat them up and see if there's chemistry, but going out just for chasing skirts sounds depressing.

That’s what I do, however you can just try going out for sole purpose of getting to know someone

 

[ManlyMan]

You need momentum so by going out more to do it it will feel more natural to do so. You get out of the correct mental state. You might need to push yourself a bit at first.

 

[ManlyMan]

There is no difference between going out to specifically approach women and doing while just shopping in the literal sense. It's all perceptions. but it is the same thing.