TheBaconator
Senior Don Juan
With women of course. Right now i'm in the worst slump of my life, and I have a tendency of get attached quick (I know, very AFC). How do you start off when u have no plates?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How do you start from scratch?
- Thread starter TheBaconator
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
coolf1r3
Don Juan
I'm more or less in the same spot you are. What I'm doing, however, is working out and improving my self-image. This Friday, I'm going to the mall and getting some new clothes that will hopefully make me feel good. Also, I'm going to aim for 10 cold approaches per day. Girls will see you the way you see yourself.
Good luck to the both of us.:rockon:
Good luck to the both of us.:rockon:
im soon going to be in the same boat as you because im moving countries. to reside in Sydney. ive been told Sydney women are harsh and uptight.
im going to have a dry spell for a while.. but im gonna concentrate on the gym and hope my win-loss ratio will be in my favor in sydney.
Im gonna go all out and hit on all the hot women i see.lol. because i find that once i have two plates..then EVERYTHING seems so much easier. Im not worried too much about either plate coz ive got the other. but my confidence and approach is so suave coz i dont really care if i win or lose with women coz i know ive got something at home already. lol.
anyway advice for you, go to the gym, get active, and be friendly and open, network tons!
dont hit on everything you see around you, sometimes its good to place hit women in friends zones before they place you there because you use them as leverage and a networking tool to get into her 300 friends! lol.
workout
project confidence
network
one new quality cool friend a week minumum
then when you know about 25 women start , pick 2 or 3 and spit game.
put them on rotation and add women to free times in your week.
salt to taste
simmer down.
serve hottttt! lol
im going to have a dry spell for a while.. but im gonna concentrate on the gym and hope my win-loss ratio will be in my favor in sydney.
Im gonna go all out and hit on all the hot women i see.lol. because i find that once i have two plates..then EVERYTHING seems so much easier. Im not worried too much about either plate coz ive got the other. but my confidence and approach is so suave coz i dont really care if i win or lose with women coz i know ive got something at home already. lol.
anyway advice for you, go to the gym, get active, and be friendly and open, network tons!
dont hit on everything you see around you, sometimes its good to place hit women in friends zones before they place you there because you use them as leverage and a networking tool to get into her 300 friends! lol.
workout
project confidence
network
one new quality cool friend a week minumum
then when you know about 25 women start , pick 2 or 3 and spit game.
put them on rotation and add women to free times in your week.
salt to taste
simmer down.
serve hottttt! lol
when I was in that situation, I just tried not to think of girls and just worked on myself. I completely updated my wardrobe. I found a new hobby to get into. I lived in the present for myself. I was single for about a year and for most of it I was completely happy and wasn't even thinking about getting girls. When I was happy with being single it wasn't a problem to find girls, eventually they were just there.
If you focus enough on yourself eventually you'll notice that there are girls who you meet or even may have known a while that show signs of interest in you. If you are out for yourself, you are going to develop a confidence that will attract women because ultimately you won't care if you fail. You live life for you so you won't be trying to win them, they will be trying to win you.
If you focus enough on yourself eventually you'll notice that there are girls who you meet or even may have known a while that show signs of interest in you. If you are out for yourself, you are going to develop a confidence that will attract women because ultimately you won't care if you fail. You live life for you so you won't be trying to win them, they will be trying to win you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When I start from scratch, I begin to focus on other things, instead of girls. A month ago, I had NO leads. I began to focus more on myself, and just making new friends. I've had several long term gfs, and NEVER met one randomly at a bar. I've met them all through friends.
In this current case, I had no leads. I just began to live life, and have fun and not worry about girls. Now, I have two girls who both have potential contacting me regularly to hang out etc... and 1-2 more on the back burner who I am also working on in case the 1st two fall through.
In this current case, I had no leads. I just began to live life, and have fun and not worry about girls. Now, I have two girls who both have potential contacting me regularly to hang out etc... and 1-2 more on the back burner who I am also working on in case the 1st two fall through.
RESEARCH..........I WOULD SUGGEST ACTUALLY BUYING A BOOK.
THEN TRY NET DATING.......SPEED DATING..........SINGLES DANCES......THEN BARS/CLUBS..........THE COLD APPROACHES.......HOOKUP WITH A WING
but it begins with inner game........a foundamental understanding how the mind works with seduction process.
THEN TRY NET DATING.......SPEED DATING..........SINGLES DANCES......THEN BARS/CLUBS..........THE COLD APPROACHES.......HOOKUP WITH A WING
but it begins with inner game........a foundamental understanding how the mind works with seduction process.