"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alnite

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a couple of my female friends have been flirting with me and I know they want me as their boyfriend. I like one of them. However, we have been talking like friends, we joke around some random stuff. I don't really know how to escalate from friend talk to partner talk. Visit her and talk doesn't do anything. How do I go the next level? I just feel weird to kiss her or hug her for no reason.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wish it was that easy- me and this girl....she wants me to formally ask her to be my girlfriend-- thats ****ed up ****...
 
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taking her out for a date would feel awkward because we started as a friend, and the flirting didn't happen until recently. I think I should throw more C&F comments, teasing her of wanting me.
 
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