How do you spot a GOLD DIGGER?

[xenopus]

I've been going out with this girl for 3 months now. We normally split the bill etc when we go for a meal, movies etc. Or when I foot the bill , she returns the favour by paying for something else But 3 months I feel is too premature to make any solid conclusions whether she is after my money or otherwise.

How do you guys detect a gold digger in your relationships?

How do you know if she really has long term plans to rob you off your well earned and deserved money?


Thanks

 

[dietzcoi]

Is she female?

If so, she plans to rob you!

J/K, if she is splitting the costs now, that is a good sign.

Dietzcoi

 

[NatureGuy]

She's not a gold digger. I normally pay
when I go out on dates, and I think it's
an expected (or at least nice) ritual in many circles. Analagous to the girl buying
a nice outfit to appeal to you. If she manipulates you to buy her gifts, give her money, pay for dinner's or outings that are extravagant beyond your norm - that's a gold digger .

 

[Doppel]

How early in the relationship did she ask you what car you drive, where you live, what do you do for a living, or anything else that shows an interest for money/material things?

 

[Julian]

ive had girls jump on my nuts the moment they see my ride. Soemtimes ill play with them just because its fun but most of the time gold diggers are stupid hos.

 

[Player_Supreme]

open your wallet and watch her eyes track the amount of bills you have in it...if she can correctly guess by just glancing...then you got yourself a real live gold digger!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It doesn't matter whether she is a gold digger or not. Just realize that YOU have control over Fort Knox. She only has access to it if YOU provide her access. Make sure it isn't unrestricted.