How do you spot a bad boy douche?

[9Volt]

How do you djs spot bad boy douches that all women date, sleep with etc?
Is every man who dates a hot woman a bad boy douche? How can you tell if you don't know the guys specifically? Is it because they're taller than you? Dress better than you? Look better than you? Have a better physique and or job than you? Have a personality she likes? Or is it just sour grapes because you weren't the one they chose?

How can you tell without knowing these bad boy douches all women date unless you know them personally?

 

[mangotot]

Bad boy douche just goes for what he wants in life while the nice guy does nor. That Is the main difference.

 

[Skinnylove]

hmmmm...

Yep,this could be a chick. ss.net is in a predicament of "chick-invasion" ranging from advice seekers to feminists to DonJuanettes(if she even exists!) Ya know,maybe we should form another thread for babes~shy ****lovers,fetish milfs,alpha widows etc etc. ss.net is no longer a secret. They Know!!! Be very afraid :nervous:

 

[SeymourCake]

Read this.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=17008

 

[RangerMIke]

I'm not romanitically interested in 'bad boy douches' so why would I care if I can identify one?

 

[zekko]

Bad boy douche just goes for what he wants in life while the nice guy does nor. That Is the main difference.

Lol, I ought to collect how guys in the manosphere define "bad boy douche". They are almost always described in the most admirable and glowing terms. Nothing is ever said about what it is that makes them "bad" or a "douche". Now a douche is just a guy who goes for what he wants in life. Douches are such admirable creatures!

I am almost 48. Oddly enough, I have never spent one minute of my life trying to spot someone like this - why would you?

The PUA community spends a great deal of time telling you that this is the type of guy that women are attracted to. You've never taken a look around for yourself to see if it actually is true or not?

 

[9Volt]

Lol, I ought to collect how guys in the manosphere define "bad boy douche". They are almost always described in the most admirable and glowing terms. Nothing is ever said about what it is that makes them "bad" or a "douche". Now a douche is just a guy who goes for what he wants in life. Douches are such admirable creatures!


The PUA community spends a great deal of time telling you that this is the type of guy that women are attracted to. You've never taken a look around for yourself to see if it actually is true or not?

That's what I'm saying. No one can describe them. A bad boy douche is basically left up to the imagination of anyone with sour grapes because that guys dating and fking her and I'm not. Its saying whatever guys the girls I want are dating are bad boy douches (because it isn't me dating and sleeping with the girls instead).

 

[zekko]

That's what I'm saying. No one can describe them. A bad boy douche is basically left up to the imagination of anyone with sour grapes because that guys dating and fking her and I'm not. Its saying whatever guys the girls I want are dating are bad boy douches (because it isn't me dating and sleeping with the girls instead).

I know you're trolling, but I'm with Mauser, I'll bite. Besides, I agree with you. How many bad boy douchebags do you know in your everyday life? Is your co-worker coming to work on his motorcycle wearing his mesh shirt and nose rings? If you read this forum, you would come away expecting all girls to be dating douchebags, or going home crying themselves to sleep over a picture of the douchebag that they keep under their pillow.

What I've always found funny is how the PUAs put the douchebag on a pedestal and hero-worship him like he is the ultimate role model to follow. I mean, really, that's the best example of masculinity that you can come up with to follow? Really?

 

[SmooveMooves]

I'll tell you if you can tell me how to spot an S ranked slut who fūcks whatever moves.

 

[9Volt]

I know you're trolling, but I'm with Mauser, I'll bite. Besides, I agree with you. How many bad boy douchebags do you know in your everyday life? Is your co-worker coming to work on his motorcycle wearing his mesh shirt and nose rings? If you read this forum, you would come away expecting all girls to be dating douchebags, or going home crying themselves to sleep over a picture of the douchebag that they keep under their pillow.

What I've always found funny is how the PUAs put the douchebag on a pedestal and hero-worship him like he is the ultimate role model to follow. I mean, really, that's the best example of masculinity that you can come up with to follow? Really?

So if it goes against the narrative it's "trolling" no matter how common sense it may be.

I know you know what I'm talking about. It just seems "bad boy douchebag" can literally mean ANY guy who get's the girl over you or I even if we've improved ourselves to be our best selves we can be (which should never be specifically to get women but to improve ourselves period with women possibly coming along).

Ex: College or Pro Athlete and we aren't and gets the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

Has a tattoo (or more than we do) and we don't and gets the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

Is taller than us (compared to each of us) and gets the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

Has a better physique than us and get's the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

Makes more money and or dresses better than we do and gets the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

Has a full head of hair and we don't and gets the girl = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

Is bald and jacked, takes care of his appearance, is tall or isn't but just jacked with tats is social, well groomed etc. and we aren't or don't take care of our appearance and gets the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag"

Is popular socially free and knows more people than us and gets the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

Was born with better looks than us and gets the girl we want = "Bad Boy Douchebag".

It almost seems IMO that "Bad Boy Douchebag" is any dude who has more than us or that "it" factor we don't and gets the girl or girls we feel entitled to we must use the easy way of "one upping" them by claiming they're the "Bad Boy Douchebag" and the girl's a "slvt" simply because we couldn't get what we wanted.


Otherwise if dudes who throw out the "Bad Boy Douchebag" title are attracted to girls who TRULY like and only date, sleep etc. with TRUE Bad Boy Douchebags = criminal rap sheets, lazy and unemployed, drug addicts, alcoholics, physical abusers, thieves, trouble makers etc. or any combination of negative qualities then they themselves need to seriously change what type of females THEY themselves are attracted to and why.

It just seems the "bad boy douchebag" title gets thrown out to mean any guy who may seem to be better than us who gets the girl we feel entitled to get.

 

[zekko]

So if it goes against the narrative it's "trolling" no matter how common sense it may be.

Not at all, I like to see people thinking for themselves and going against the narrative instead of coming here and just parroting back everything they read in the Book of Pook or whatever. But that's not why I think you're trolling. It's more your low post count combined with the fact that you are obviously very familiar with the subject matter. Obviously not a newbie, so you've probably been banned a few times, plus you're saying things that would likely ruffle certain people's feathers.

But like I said, I don't care, I agree with you. Most of these stereotypes end up being basically meaningless, and people apply them to any and all situations. If he got the girl, he's a jerk. If I lost the girl, I'm a nice guy, I'm the guy she should have chosen. It all has its roots in bitterness.

 

[Serenity]

The bad boy thing as preached by communities such as these is actually an elaborate psychological trick. To a nice guy any guy who gets the girl is a bad boy and a douche, because they're jealous. Be like that bad boy douche because obviously he's doing it right, and the negative way of seeing them is purely because the nice guy is butthurt.

 

[Skinnylove]

You're a crazy mofok.Read this;

I'll tell you if you can tell me how to spot an S ranked slut who fūcks whatever moves.

We're men,we can't say who is and who isn't a douche,in a sence you're forcing us to compare ourselves with fellow men,its a bait and you know it.Why can't you tell us how to spot a *****~coz you're all sluts.It would be better if you asked chicks.Here everyone is aspiring in his own ladder.Hence,if we were to be honest we would tell you we're all aspiring to be chick-magnets in one way or another.We just don't say coz its a natural process.In short,learn to read people's attitude...the female intuition is mighty fvcking big,such that your able to spot who naturally 'tickles your gina'.Otherwise your just forcing us to tell us our opinions on who is a "bad boy douche" and who isn't...

 

[BrainDamage92]

The bad boy douche is as insecure as the AFC on the inside, whats in between is what you should aim at - a nice guy who could simply care less about other people's BS.