"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you show her that you don't want her YET you do?

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Ive been reading alot of stuff in this site and ive always come across the whole "You want her but you dont need her" jerk attitude. Ive always wondered how that was PROPERLY done. I mean, you can totally ignore the chick you're targeting but how do you know that its working for you? How do you know that she's just getting more attracted to you? At times, the chick might not be paying attention to your ass either and you wouldn't know. So how do you show that you want her, but at the same time not give her too much and have it work??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When she does something you disagree with, move on. Actions speak louder than words. As you partially mentioned before you need to have interest before hand or else its just you playing a game with yourself, lol
 

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Tell her:

"I want you to know that I know you think that I know you know that I think you know that I want you to think that I know you want me to THINK I know that you know I KNOW you know that I know that WE should know that you know I know because we BOTH know that I know you know I WANT you to know that you want me."

All the while, make sure to point back and forth, mix up the pointing, touch her arm, put your hand on your chest, take her hand and put it on your chest, point, point to her arm, point to her chest, put her hand on her chest, make her hand put your hand on her chest, point to her hand...

Then grab her azz.

Works like a charm.
 

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LOL vulpine...LOL. too much talking though but still lol you know?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I like to say "I love you" whilst beating her over the head with a blunt object.
Confuses the hell out of them
 

realsmoothie

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Rocker said:
I like to say "I love you" whilst beating her over the head with a blunt object.
Confuses the hell out of them
I know some girls this might actually work on.
 
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