"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you Send her Mixed Signals?

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This girl is starting to think I like her and I don't want that happening quite yet. I still want to be a challenge. So far I am a challenge, I don't hang out with her often, I'm usually busy when she wants to go out, and I tease her...almost a little too much that she thinks I'm so mean to her. But we've hooked up twice so far. So I know there is a lot of interest, but I don't want to show it.
I'm taking her out tonight, what should I do? Ask about other women? Maybe talk about the cute waitress? I don't want to seem too disinterested or be made out to be a player, but I want to somehow send mixed signals.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You show a woman your feelings to her by your actions not your mouth! Next time you see her give her some attention then back off. The push-pull theory.
 
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How do I go about backing off? Just heavy attention and then almost ignoring her or wha?
 
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Yes, thats pretty much it. Do a search or look in the bible it talks more about it.
 
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