"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you respond when women ask you this question?

bigneil

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When they ask you how many women you've been with?
They don't usually ask that question to me.

I have asked some girls if they want to know and they usually say no.

I also don't want to know their exact number, but I do want to know how many guys she's been with in the past year, and since we started dating.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They don't usually ask that question to me.

I have asked some girls if they want to know and they usually say no.

I also don't want to know their exact number, but I do want to know how many guys she's been with in the past year, and since we started dating.
Why?
 

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Why do I want to know where she has been in the past year? Why do I want to know who else she had sex with since me? Because of the potential to spread infections. I've yet to contract one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I physically cringed.
The thing to remember with women, and the difference between men that are good with women and men that are not, is that men that are good with women know it is better that chicks dislike them than if she thinks you are boring. It is better to be hated then to be an androgynous nothing.

The other thing is that it is all about timing and presentation. You can say just about anything to a woman and get away with it if it is done in the right way, with humor and fun. Jesus, you should hear the way they talk to their friends about you. They are the biggest freaking slvts.
 
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