Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you respond when a female calls you ugly

Alle_Gory

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GnappyB said:
How do you respond to that? I don't see the point in childish comebacks but I have to see her everyday. Should I just ignore her, though making quips about her iq, her upbringing, and self esteem is tempting.
"Gimme a call when you grow up."

Or something like that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No Girls 4 U

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What makes you think you have to respond at all?

She calls you "ugly." That's her opinion. It's not a "fact." Therefore, there's no need to respond to it. She just stated out loud what she was thinking; it doesn't require a response.

Furthermore, no one said a man has to respond to every single thing a woman says to them. Me, I would have been like "whatever" and walked off. Plus, we already know most women are going to age a lot more horribly than guys are. I'd just assume she's going to eventually get ugly and keep it movin'.
 
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