"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you respond when a female calls you ugly

GnappyB

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How do you respond to that? I don't see the point in childish comebacks but I have to see her everyday. Should I just ignore her, though making quips about her iq, her upbringing, and self esteem is tempting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PokerStar

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what promptyed her to say that? what did you do before she told you this?
 

jawbreaker73

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unless you want to bang me it shouldnt matter how i look like..i think eminem said tht
 

Iceberg

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Real Talk said:
Post about it on sosuave
Hah.

If this dude is hanging around chicks that would call another human being "ugly" for no reason, then he needs to stop dumpster diving and start hanging out with grown ups.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Naughty Ninja

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GnappyB said:
How do you respond to that? I don't see the point in childish comebacks but I have to see her everyday. Should I just ignore her, though making quips about her iq, her upbringing, and self esteem is tempting.

Tell her: Toots, I need plastic surgery just to REACH ugly. Deal with it.
 

powpow

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Naughty Ninja said:
Tell her: Toots, I need plastic surgery just to REACH ugly. Deal with it.
IM SAYIN!!!!!!

man whats up? thats kinda rude, huh?

if a girl said that, personally, Id be hitting the gym and buying some proactive and some new clothes. Im not sure I have ever seen something so extreme like that.

either that or youre just not rich enough.
 

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powpow said:
IM SAYIN!!!!!!

man whats up? thats kinda rude, huh?

if a girl said that, personally, Id be hitting the gym and buying some proactive and some new clothes. Im not sure I have ever seen something so extreme like that.

either that or youre just not rich enough.

No one's ever said it to my face. On POF. I get some good "LOLZ" off that type of crap. It's only a way for an insecure person to project their own self worth. Otherwise they wouldn't care. I have a very thick skin. Sh!t like that only makes me laugh.
 

Chickfight

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Look at her like she's a crazy woman, then ignore her. Then never contact her again.
What kind of person says that. Nobodies ever said that to me, even when I looked like a burn victim from a crazy acne outbreak back in highschool.
 

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Tell her she is a worthless evil human being and society will be better off the sooner she dies. I actually said this to a woman years ago (at least twenty) in response to my looks. I saw her recently. We made eye contact and I knew she remembered my comment. I saw the look of embarrassment and shame in her eyes. Her life turned out to be crap. It was almost like she thought I put a curse on her, haha.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't think I've ever dealt with this. I've never called a girl ugly before either even when they were. That's just some childish disrespectful sh!t.
 

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1. As a troll myself, (on other sites, not SS) I can smell another troll a mile away. This OP is def trolling.

2. Who the fuk cares?
 

SoSuaveDude

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this happened to me before, but the girl also called me cute. Maybe that's an awkward way of flirting for her. I wouldn't worry about it too much though
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SoSuaveDude

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nismo-4 said:
Laugh and act unfazed. If you really are ugly, work on it.

Case closed. Go get 'em tiger.
Lmao! how can you work on uglyness...
 

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A **** who recently blew me off after a date, I told her it's ok, it looks like you're getting kinda fat anyway. Pissed her off quite good :)
I have no problem insulting a women, I'll use the word **** without even caring or giving a ****.

Unless a chick is cool, and continues to be cool, don't worry about disrespecting her, she probably deserves it.
 

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What about not responding and ignoring that tramp?
there are other girls to have a go at anyway.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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