"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you respond when a female calls you ugly

Alle_Gory

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GnappyB said:
How do you respond to that? I don't see the point in childish comebacks but I have to see her everyday. Should I just ignore her, though making quips about her iq, her upbringing, and self esteem is tempting.
"Gimme a call when you grow up."

Or something like that.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What makes you think you have to respond at all?

She calls you "ugly." That's her opinion. It's not a "fact." Therefore, there's no need to respond to it. She just stated out loud what she was thinking; it doesn't require a response.

Furthermore, no one said a man has to respond to every single thing a woman says to them. Me, I would have been like "whatever" and walked off. Plus, we already know most women are going to age a lot more horribly than guys are. I'd just assume she's going to eventually get ugly and keep it movin'.
 
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