Every now and then I'll hear girls say that their boobs are small or that they're fat or whatever (most of times they're actually skinny and have decent sized boobs) How do you respond to these kinds of things? I know a lot of girls can be pretty sensitive about this stuff
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How do you respond to girls that are self conscious about themselves?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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4ChanWarrior
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duke104 said:
her: I look fat
me: Go to the damn gym.
her: My boobs are small
me: Get a boob job.
Just be honest :rock:
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
every woman on the planet is self concious about something on their body. most of the time they are just fishing for compliments to make themselves feel better. the problem is, this is actually a s.hit test. dont fall for it and give them what they want. if they say oh i'm fat, or my hairs ugly today, and you give in and say, no baby you have a smoking hot body, or your hair looks beautiful today. you fail the s.hit test. she then thinks you are just like every other non-confident AFC out there that kisses her ass and worships the ground she walks on. i like david deangelo's response. it should work with almost and one of the self concious little s.hit tests. say this: "i wasnt gonna say anything but....." and dont forget to always smile.duke104 said:
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
That's a good way to go, something I also do a lot:thevilittletroll said:
Her: I'm fat!
Me: *Pokes her stomach*
Her: My hair is so ugly!
Me: Smirks and messes up her hair
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
It's always about validation seeking and the same old ego-stroking women do with their girlfriends all day long. I dont respond on that at all. Or what other guys said. Just be careful, some of them can and will get offended on purpose even though it is a sh!t test and you get points for passing it.You gotta make them wonder at times.
ive also followed deangelos advice here on many occassions when its a light atmosphere however if the girl is seriously feeling bad about herself is it counter productive to be ****y and funny ?? what about the case where the girl ACTUALLY is insecure about her body ?thevilittletroll said:
Is it ok to point out her other non physical attributes and make her feel good(assuming she's ltr) ?
for example and lemme know if this was AFC : I was talking wit my gal(serious ltr) a few months back and she was sending me MMS of her in a new dress. She then said that she looks too flat in it and then went about telling me that how she doesn't like that she's too flat. So I told her that the way you carry yourself in that dress makes the difference and i think it looks sexy on you.
She was very much happy about it and Im judging her IL didn't drop. Atleast not then. Infact, her IL seem to boost up.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Women need validation in LTR through their men. I would say that that it should be given or otherwise you are emotionally unavailable and don't show enough empathy. To add, majority of women are insecure in one way or another and if you happen to jab them in the wrong spot and at the wrong time, she will think you an ass. Aside from that, misunderstanding can take place. You gotta be able to make them feel good without the ego- boost, to which you have a perfect example above, in essence, it's charm. Plus, they love when they can't figure out whether you are an assshole or a good guy.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
What do you say to a girl when she's insecure about having big boobs?
Telling her she has an amazing rack doesn't seem like the right thing to say.
Telling her she has an amazing rack doesn't seem like the right thing to say.
Marvin Gaye
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Man girls make it so easy for us and we don't even realize.ARrocket said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Squeeze on the titties and tell her she has beautiful eyes.Maxtro said:
Over react,you'll pass the sh1t test and have a laugh.
Her: ohh look at my hair,my head is a mess!
You: Come on sunday when I cut the grass and we'll see what can be done.
Her: omg look at this picture i look so ugly!
You:who made the picture? the girl from the ring?
Her: ohh look at my hair,my head is a mess!
You: Come on sunday when I cut the grass and we'll see what can be done.
Her: omg look at this picture i look so ugly!
You:who made the picture? the girl from the ring?