"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how do you respond to a question like this? -Please read

pvf94

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The friend of the girl you are gaming says something along the lines of "Do you like HB?"

How do you respond to that? I was thinking about this and you know damn well she is going to tell HB what your reply was.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You reverse the question back to her, but with you instead.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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pvf94 said:
"Do you like HB?"
Why do you ask?

If she says that she just wants to know, tell her that with all due respect, that isn't a viable reason to ask someone a question such as that.

Yes fellas, they can be trained.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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'I think I'm in love with her... Ha, not really but the look on your face! You know, jealousy is a negative emotion. No I don't fancy her. Your other friend though, she's smokin!' etc
 
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