"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How do you respond to a girl openly stating "I like attention and compliments"
- Thread starter Reckoning
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
old married dude
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TarantulaHawk
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Let's go somewhere private where we can show each other things that like attention and compliments.Reckoning said:
Thorninmyside
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Zapp Brannigan
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Only the typical spoiled, narcissistic, attention wh0re modern women would utter such garbage. They don't deserve your attention and time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BrainDamage92
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The problem is if she percieves guys who treat her nice just so they can get inside her pants as "friends" who like her for her great "personality". This is used by girls who need a self esteem boost, they are incompetent and have very little to offer to society, which is where their low self evaluation sprung from, and since they are nothing but their looks, they use this in a twisted way, lying even to themselves that guys like them for the great person they are
which is OK, its a free world, whatever floats her boat.In the end, its just a temporary boost for her, since deep down inside she realises she is useless, so in the long run these girls are losers, and will never be happy :}
So again, this is not a bad thing, who doesnt like compliments? Question is, is she real, or deluding herself?
SmooveMooves
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Dgwizdal
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dutchmaster
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
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"So does my dog!"
From there on, give minimal attention and eye contact. At pro level, statements like that will turn you off instantly.