How do you reject women?

[Dee-Zy]

I got a few problems with some chicks that are interested in me - but I'm not in them. How do you guys handle it?

Once, I told her straight up and opened up completely about it. She denied she was interested, which was bull cuz she tried to kiss me numerous times and was somehow always ending up between my legs

Anyways, these girls are nice half the time, but I am just NOT interested and I get really uncomfortable around them cuz I don't want to lead them on. They keep asking me out or 'suggest to go places'.

any suggestions?

It's like I can't even use them for social proofs cuz they cling too much. I can't get into conversations with other ppl.

 

[Don_Marko]

hit & run

 

[DJUofS]

I usually treat them like **** if they are that persistant. There is this one girl that I work with who is absolutely terrible looking. Her personality doesn't even make her any better she is that bad.

Anyway, everyday I work with her she asks me out on dates. Instead of nicely saying "no thanks" or making up an excuse, I put it in the meanest possible fashion. Generally somewhere along the lines of "why would I want to go out with you? I can't stand you!" I tried all the nice responses before, but when they get that persistant it's time to stop worrying about their feelings.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by DJUofS
I usually treat them like **** if they are that persistant. There is this one girl that I work with who is absolutely terrible looking. Her personality doesn't even make her any better she is that bad.

Anyway, everyday I work with her she asks me out on dates. Instead of nicely saying "no thanks" or making up an excuse, I put it in the meanest possible fashion. Generally somewhere along the lines of "why would I want to go out with you? I can't stand you!" I tried all the nice responses before, but when they get that persistant it's time to stop worrying about their feelings.

Damn, I don't know if I can do something like that ... I guess desperate situations calls for desperate measures ... but it's not like I hate these girls - I just want to be friends.

 

[Caveman]

LOL

Yeah, this is what we wanna hear

I've been having the same problem and still don't quite know how to handle. Rejecting is not as good as it appeared to be in the woman-hating-days

The only thing that kinda works for me is telling them that I like them but that I don't have any feelings for them.
The crazy thing about that though, is that they reply stuff like:
But we could hang out and all, and in time you might feel different about me

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

if you ignore a girl and then sometimes give her attention she will like you even more, you are a chalange, but if you totaly ignore her and show her not attention at all ever then she will not be chasing you for much longer

hope iv been a help

 

[Don_Marko]

seriously if you wanna reject them just go AFC on them and watch how fast they run... there was a fingerz post back in the day where he told the chick that he loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her... The girl ran away so fast, cartoon-styles that all you see is the smoke in place of her image

 

[Dee-Zy]

I don't think you guys get it ... or maybe the title is misleading.


I'm saying, how do you reject women - not repell. For the persistant ones, yeah - I guess I can ignore them ... but that don't really work cuz it just seems to become a challenge to them.

Don't get me wrong, I just want to be friends with these chicks. I have no sexual interest. It's not like I don't ever want to see them again. These girls are still ok. I'd still like to keep them as friends (to eventually use them for social proof).

If I go AFC on them, I can't keep em as friends.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

well if you use LJBF on them and they still chase you, and you dont want to repel or upset them, then theres not much you can do! You will just have to force the message of LJBF in to their heads by telling them this every time they hit on you or try and flirt with you.

 

[defiancy]

let's see...if some guy is bothering you and annoying you that badly what would you do? Probably destroy him mentally and express your feelings. Same concept to anyone on this earth..everyone is only human.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

buy if a guy does it, its to annoy you, if a girl does it, its ussualy because she likes you as more then just a freind. plus did you not read what dee-zy said, he still wants to be freinds with them, so your idea is not good

 

[TurboLover]

Say "get away from me, your making my penis soft."

Jk

You could tell them politely that your not interested and that you see her as a sister. Plus, they are going off of hope, and if your single then their hopes are higher. Remember what makes a good friend is someone who respects your stand on things. If they keep on pushing it then maybe you shouldn't associate with them.

 

[Caveman]

Originally posted by TurboLover
You could tell them politely that your not interested and that you see her as a sister.

That is actually a good one! Nothing turns me off more than a girl telling me she sees me as a brother.

Cheers!

 

[Beethoven]

Instead of going totally AFC, just drop all the 'sexual' techniques that you now naturally do!

So that means no C&F, no being mysterious, no kino, call them up regularly so they don't miss ya, etc...

In other words, just act like one of their girlfriends! If you don't act male, they won't want you that way. Now, are you man enough to be a woman?!

 

[comic_relief]

********

Just tell her that you think of her like a friend and if she still tries tell her that "I love you like a sister" which means I consider sex with you like incest.

Pook's ******** posts goes over these very well.

 

[Raptured Phoenix]

Originally posted by Beethoven
Instead of going totally AFC, just drop all the 'sexual' techniques that you now naturally do!

So that means no C&F, no being mysterious, no kino, call them up regularly so they don't miss ya, etc...

In other words, just act like one of their girlfriends! If you don't act male, they won't want you that way. Now, are you man enough to be a woman?!

bingo.

Stop seeing them as women, stop treating them like it. Once they are gone however, you will miss the attention, so why even do it? Unless they are very unattractive.

I went through this with some girls I know, I started phasing out treating them like women, and they starte to stop liking me. Halfway through I was like "damn, I change my mind, I like attention."

hehe, its harder to win em back once they stop seein you as a 'guy.'

 

[DiSt0rTi0n_07]

I had 1 chick that was so desperate that if I came online to check my email she would call all her friends and say "He came on! He came on!" She would have sent me a msg b4 the damn program told me if I had mail or not!

All I did was play dumb and she eventually got the idea that I wasn't interested.
She says something like "It's 11:00 sexy... Wanna come over? Nobody is home..."
You say "I'm watching reality shows with my family. Can we get together tomorrow instead?"

I try not to tell ppl to use specific lines when dealing with women cause it's not original and its unnatural. However, I like the idea of "I see you as a sister".

You could also get in a relationship with someone you are in like with... that helps to give them the picture.

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by Don_Marko
hit & run

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[Don Ronny]

Screw all her cute friends.

 

[comic_relief]

go with Don Ronny's advice

my advice is still good but Don Ronny's advice is just as good. If you go with his advice make a field report for us to read