"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you re-create sexual tension?

SoSuaveDude

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Im sure some of you fellas have also encountered that after engaging in sexual activity with high sexual tension between you and your partner, flirting tones down a bit. The heavy eye contact and their hornyness for you also lol. How can you rebuild that heavy sexual tension between you two? should you give them more space?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ease

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After sex? The goal is complete, you are relaxed, everything is good.

Who cares about that, get rid of her after sex. There's a reason why the ancestors obey the rule of 'hit and split'. Dont think so much and listen to wisdom.

If you are going to worry about small things like this you will never be happy with your girl.
 

joverby

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Ease said:
If you are going to worry about small things like this you will never be happy with your girl.
This is a lesson I had to learn, and still am learning(making myself) TBH. I luckily have a girl who is understanding and didn't can me for some stupid sh1t i've said or accused her of(even indirectly accused).
 
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