"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you rate this woman

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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j0504s

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Olivia said:
She is a friend and she is an ten right

http://ocjulia.indiedays.com/2013/06/04/ibiza-night-hair/

http://ocjulia.indiedays.com/2013/06/03/unohdettu-asu/

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Would you bang? did you get a boner
Just out of curiousity are you male or female? b/c your profile leads me to believe your female?

If so Im assuming that female is you...my question would be why do u need us to rate how you look?

That picture is also photoshopped/airbrushed to look better it wouldnt be a fair rating
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SeymourCake

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6-7/10
 

Halcyonique

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No one wants to rate her highly because they assume that because she's female, and you're female, that means it MUST be you, and you're attention wh0ring, and so don't want to fluff your ego. :D

Whoever she is, she's stunning. I'd say 9 - 10.
 

VladPatton

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I'll say it, I don't care:

:rockon: I'd rail the piss outta her! :yes:
 

Fuglydude

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VladPatton said:
I'll say it, I don't care:

:rockon: I'd rail the piss outta her! :yes:
I concur!!

Very pretty face... but a bit too thin, but still very railable!
 

LorenzoVonM

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She's quite attractive but if it's you or you are posting for her then she's a dumbass. Pump and dump.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheCWord

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Think OP just posted this to see a forum full of guys pretend like they’re aloof and indifferent to a “HB10,” just like we’ve been taught. Dance, monkeys, dance :)

Obviously she's gorgeous. We know it, OP knows it - and the model knows it, by sheer virtue that she's been photographed for a magazine. I've worked with models and actresses for almost 10 years now (no big deal :cool: ) and I can tell you I've never seen a non-bangable girl cast in anything, unless the role called for it (old lady, ugly friend). I'd imagine a fashion magazine falls into the category of "bangable girls only, please."
 

nroug7

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Ratings are for chumps, why doesn't she/you just figure it out herself?
 

Xenon

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what does she look like without makeup? otherwise, any skinny chick can be a 7
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JoeMarron

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TheCWord said:
Think OP just posted this to see a forum full of guys pretend like they’re aloof and indifferent to a “HB10,” just like we’ve been taught. Dance, monkeys, dance :)

Obviously she's gorgeous. We know it, OP knows it - and the model knows it, by sheer virtue that she's been photographed for a magazine. I've worked with models and actresses for almost 10 years now (no big deal :cool: ) and I can tell you I've never seen a non-bangable girl cast in anything, unless the role called for it (old lady, ugly friend). I'd imagine a fashion magazine falls into the category of "bangable girls only, please."
Lol true. 99% of men would bang this chick if given the opportunity.
 

dutchmaster

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everyone has different taste, personally I don't even think she's all that hot. 7 maybe
 

PeasantPlayer

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Ok yes I would bang her. Now my scale goes from 1-8 looks wise because honestly....no one is perfect and nobody is going to change that stance for me. Now with that said if the girls personality is very good she can score a 9 or 10.

As for this girl...yes I would bang her....her body is to skinny for my type, but she has nice skin. I would give her a 6 for her face....but keep in mind these are probably her best photos and she has make-up on. And my friends I am just keeping it real to my truths so don't throw a hissy fit
 

TheCWord

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Doesn't matter how much of my beta skin I've shed or how much I've learned about game - I'll always find "rating" women very juvenile.
 

Atom Smasher

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You guys are looking at a shell of makeup filled with very plain-looking flesh, which has been heavily photoshopped and very heavily color and light-corrected.

She's maybe a 7 underneath the artifice, quite possibly a 6.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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