zinc4 said:
Honestly...i have never had this problem in a relationship...it has always been the exact opposite with me getting tired of the sex and me trying to find ways to avoid/delay it.........
But if i had to guess, it's because you like her more than she likes you and she can feel it thus she has the power...it's really as simple as that...........
No stupid little games or PUA crap will fix this...you just have to quit making her your main priority...and right now you are on a discussion board asking how to raise her IL....so you are already failing....just don't give a sh&t about the possibility of losing her or walking and find other things that you really like and make her your 2nd or 3rd priority if not further down the list.....
So in short...stop caring so much about her and the relationship.....find other stuff to focus on...
And you should be happy that she doesn't fiend for sex.....that is less work for you...i wish i could find one that doesn't fiend for it in a LTR....in my experience they get hornier the longer it progresses...ugh...
Absolutely agree. OP, you're overthinking it. I haven't gamed my GF in almost a year. I do what I think is fun, try to live an awesome life, involve her along the ride and encourage her to live her own life too. If that's not enough for her, oh well. Being single is awfully tempting right now with all that new pu$$y all around me. And if she ever strays, I've made it clear it's a no-strike policy.
Instead of changing yourself, you need to figure out if her interest level is good enough for you. There's tons of girls out there. You're choosing to be with this one. If she's not making you totally happy, find one that is or spin plates. Do and say what you like, not what you think she wants. Talk to her cause you like talking to her and sharing things with her. Try to figure out if she's worth keeping around for long-term, without games or power plays. As long as you respect yourself, make the most of every moment and work toward something successful, she'll be interested.
As for the sex fiending, make her cvm hard and pound her pu$$y and she won't be able to stop herself. Amazing sex is like crack for women. My GF starts it 80-90% of the time. Talk really dirty. Tease her. Make sure you're the one deciding what happens when. Then watch what happens. It's a good setup but also becomes a lot of work to eat her out or fck 3-4 times a day. And she won't keep sucking my d!ck past 2-3 minutes cause she can't stop herself from trying to stick it in her.
