How do you project 'will walk'

[thezenmachine]

I've read the system and Doc Love says that one of the ways to be a challenge and keep a girl's interest level above yours (or at least think she likes you more than you like her) is to make it known that you will leave the relationship if it gets bad. However, you can't say,'Do that and I'll walk', she has to just 'know' that you will walk.

Any tips on how to project this attitude? What signals would work?

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

It's all about the INNER GAME. A DJ with strong inner game is not going to take women so seriously>thus he is not afraid of losing her>thus he is not attached to the outcome (making him attractive to women).

This is why negs and c&f work so well. It's a playful, unserious, flirtatious display of strength that women eat right up.

And obviously, when she shows disrespect or otherwise displeases you, you SHOW her that your sh!t is real when you get on your horse and ride away.

Don't worry so much about the nuts and bolts. Cultivate your inner game, grasshopper.

 

[Weezy]

I used this tactic last weekend.

My buddy and I pulled a couple of chicks and they took us back to their house.

We were in her bed but she wouldn't let me do anything other then kiss her and I was getting really fn annoyed because she was like a 6 max, so I got up and told her that it didn't seem like things were working out between us and that I was gonna bounce.

She said well if you come back I'll let you mess around more, I played like I was thinking and then f closed in 30 minutes. Nothing to be proud of and it was easy to do but just s demonstration of how being willing to walk is a tool that works.

 

[Weezy]

I used this tactic last weekend.

My buddy and I pulled a couple of chicks and they took us back to their house.

We were in her bed but she wouldn't let me do anything other then kiss her and I was getting really fn annoyed because she was like a 6 max, so I got up and told her that it didn't seem like things were working out between us and that I was gonna bounce.

She said well if you come back I'll let you mess around more, I played like I was thinking and then f closed in 30 minutes. Nothing to be proud of and it was easy to do but just s demonstration of how being willing to walk is a tool that works.

 

[Ease]

An amazing way to do this, is to actually do this.

You dont have to do it on a big scale. Just apply the principle.

You show her that you would rather do something else or cancel plans if something turns you off.

Eg Case study:

You have plans to go to a movie on friday, she calls on wednesday and says her friend is having a party and wants you to go together to that instead. The party sounds very gay but you have no other plans and still want to see her because your interest level is too high. A beta bumboy would agree and follow the girl around all night.

Bam. You say 'Well no thats ok, you go to the party and il go out', she replies surprised, 'Ahh uhh... ok then ... '.

Truth is she wants to see you too, she's just trying to pull a frame grab manouvre to gain power. You slap her in the face and show her who's boss, she wont be trying to change your dates any more because she's scared of losing her oppurtinity to see you.

Great success.

 

[thezenmachine]

Good advice Ease, especially considering that I've been through that exact situation a bunch of times, I think I gave in every time!

 

[beatoven]

If you want a flaky girl to snap into line, THIS IS HOW TO DO IT.

My favorite phrase in this situation is: "It's cool. I'll just take/go with someone else."

The reaction is usually immediate, and violent. I said this to one girl who was giving me the "I'm busy that night" spiel and the words barely left my lips when she stopped in her tracks and said NO!!! loudly to me. Needless to say, she showed up, and we had a good time.

Other girls haven't reacted quite like that, but in one case I told a girl I was going bowling, she declined my offer, I said no problem, and took someone else. Guess who was at the bowling alley that night? The girl who turned me down, with a group of her friends. She saw me with my date, did a double take, and glared at us from across the room. I made sure to flash her a few smug grins.


Communicating that she isn't your only option is a powerful tool. Even if you're bluffing, it sets the precedent that your time is valuable and you're not playing games. However, it ONLY works on girls who are interested. If she's not, then she'll probably be relieved you're not taking her out, lol.

 

[(JJ)]

good advice here.

the other night, this girl told me she was gonna "go work out, then come over " at about 8 oclock. 9:30 rolls around and she says "i'm just now going to work out.. oops. lol" so i said "ah some other time then. im not gonna wait for you all night." the next night, we fvcked each other senseless.

you can use this in pretty much any situation where a girl acts unfavorably by just conveying that you are high value and blowing her off on a date. if she's a 6 or higher, chances are extremely high she's not used to getting blown off AT ALL. use this to your advantage to make yourself stand out.

 

[thezenmachine]

Awesome advice, guys! Thanks!

 

[Blue Phoenix]

The problem is that this requires you to set the frame for real. Some girls test you all the time, if you´re not good enough you will slip.

Once I invited a girl to eat at a cheap café, she wanted to go to an expensive one and I said NO. I´m going there (the cheap one)! We went ok. Later on she started rambling again. The fancy cafe was right in front of where we were sitting. I said "Look, the "fancy cafe" is right across the street, if you wanna go, GO". She shut up after that. :box:

I started to get really annoyed. The rule is, if I´m the one inviting I decide where to go. Another important thing, if a girl only wants to go to an expensive restaurant or similar things she´s more concerned about her than you. If she really likes you, she can be in hell and will be happy because you´re there with her.