"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you prefer your women?

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1) Hot Face, or Hot Body?

2) Big Boned or Very Skinny?

And last but not least...the reason I started this thread in the first place...

3) Beautiful or Sexy?

Me:

1) Most of the time face, but I make exceptions.

2) Skinny is nasty.

3) Without a doubt, SEXY. I know a few women who at first glance aren't "10's", but when you see how they carry themselves you can't help but be attracted to them.

I used to know a chick who was so sexy she practically MADE LOVE to her cigarette. With any other girl I would think smoking is nasty, but this one...oooooohhhhh....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd rather have a girl with a 10 face and a 7/8 body, than the other way around. I'm more into the really cute/pretty look than the "sexy" look......whatever that means. My ideal body on a chick would be something like Salma Hayak's, with, say, Audrey Tautou's (Amelie) face. Although it looks like Tautou has a pretty bangin' body herself.
 

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Scrumtulescence said:
I'd rather have a girl with a 10 face and a 7/8 body, than the other way around. I'm more into the really cute/pretty look than the "sexy" look......whatever that means. My ideal body on a chick would be something like Salma Hayak's, with, say, Audrey Tautou's (Amelie) face. Although it looks like Tautou has a pretty bangin' body herself.

Sexy isn't a look, it's an attitude.

Would you rather have a girl who turns you on with the way she looks or the way she carries herself?
 

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im a sucker for class and sexiness/attitude.

i would take an 8 who knew how to dress/move/talk/carry herself over a natural beauty any day.

im very much into girls who take good care of themselves, dress right, etc..

i am not into tomboys, but for that matter, i can't stand boring chicks who are only into the superficial aspects of life either, even if they are hot.
 

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I prefer women that look like they were drawn by John Buscema.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1 Hot face (but she cant be fat)
2 skinny
3 beautiful/cute

I guess the sexy ppl prefer ONS and the beauty ones are geared more towards LTR?
 

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too many variables because girls can be so different yet still be hot...however the bottom line is :no fatties.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Re:

That's cake.

Hot body + Skinny + Sexy.

I've seen those girls, maybe b/c I have friends in grunge bands. You know, the girls who are pettie, big boobed, small tight butt, almost a butter face?

It's like having a fat chick WHO has to please because she has to make up for her fatness, only you get the BUTTERFACE, and she's banging looking. Normally girls like that who don't have pretty faces are pretty sweet and cool. I'm not talking arse ugly, but not picture pretty.

It's always the PICTURE pretty girls on the internet with the big attitude, but they end up downing lines of COKE like I drink Gin and Tonics (quite a bit). A skinny body DOES not get my crank up, and if I banged and overly pretty face, but too skinny girl, I'd worry about hitting bone. The whole chubby girl thing will get out of control, because she starts from a fat base.


A-Unit
 

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Face, mesomorph (between skinny and big bones... but given the choice, y prefer skinny), and beautiful.
 

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I like them stripped naked, slim, nice ass ready in doggy position when I get home. :))
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm surprised that I am one of the few who would rather have a girl who is sexy over one who is beautiful.

FYI- There has to be at least SOME beauty to a girl who would be considered sexy. Physical attractiveness is a prerequisite, but a truly sexy girl gets at least two points added to her score by the way she carries herself. In other words, she can be a 7 in a photo and and hit 9 on video.

C'mon fellas
 
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