How do you not become "boring"?

[MVP]

I think my biggest problem is that girls view me as being boring. So even if I'm confident, they don't want to stay to get to know me better.

 

[brucevangeorge]

Do something else. Do something different.

Listen to your gut when it says to jump in the pool with that chick for no reason, when it says to go mountain-climbing while you are at work...

It's called spontaneity. Listen to it. It's somewhere, you just have to find it and listen to it.



Note: It can also be masked as randomness.

 

[ScrewIt]

best way to avoid being boring is have topics to talk about. have things going on in your life that you can tell stories about, whether it may be past or present.
sports..music..events..movies...weather..news...etc.

But i know what you mean, sometimes i just cant think of anything to talk about with people where there may be silent moments. and some days talk will be flowing so smoothly.

but you cant be serious 100% when u speak, you have to enjoy what you're talking about with your personality showing.

 

[organizedconfusion]

have an interesting life and hobbies ,have fun...

 

[BBX]

If you can pull it off, just say something stupid and random every so often like.....fish vagina...and she'll be like "what!?" smiling, and just make up a story about a fish vagina.

 

[Chillisauce]

being random doesnt make you interesting, just 'weird'.

Make sure when your talking you arnt doing it in a monotonous lecture kind of way, its more important how you say things than what you say.

 

[BBX]

being random doesnt make you interesting, just 'weird'.

Basically, women don't have attention spans so being a little random dosen't hurt. Look at the class clown/jerk, he blurts out random things all the time and chicks completley dig him. The smart kid that knows all the questions, not so much.