"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you move on?

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drift king

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How do you move on from a oneitis if you are on a small campus abroad and there are no other suitable HBs in the city?

Ideally you should move onto a better looking girl or at least the same. Otherwise it feels you're taking a step back. Unfortunately this semester there are a lack of HBs on campus and most are in a different study building to me so I have no reason to go there without looking creepy looking for girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Theres no way that theres no other hot girls around. What this is, is you putting some girl on a pedestal. I know exactly what youre going through. Its like no matter where you look, nobody is as good looking as the girl you have oneitis for. Thats because youre still entranced by her. I still think my ex is one of the prettiest girls ive seen, and I truly think she is, but I still think part of that is the pedestal talking. Once you get with other girls, or really move on, you will notice A LOT more hot girls around, guarenteed. Its because youre close minded, you still want THAT girl, so you havent allowed yourself to open your eyes to those around you.
 
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drift king said:
How do you move on from a oneitis.......?
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How do you breathe? You just do.


Prediction your next thread is going to be titled "How do you breathe?" :)

Seriously though quit being silly. You are young and too smart to be getting hung up on a chick.

How did you go about your business BEFORE you met her? Remember that? There was a time in your life when she didn't even exist. Don't let a stupid chick who cheated on you fvck up your happiness.

Quit feeling sorry for yourself and get back out there. Otherwise we'll have to :trouble: .......
 
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