"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you meet women?

AlmostThere!

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I don't have a very active social life and it feels like such a puzzle on where to meet women. If I was in situations where I was around lots of females, then I wouldn't have a problem.

Me: I work and come home. I have interests but really don't know where to get involved in my interests. I have a thing about going someplace and wasting my time if no one shows up or there's a bunch of whack people.

So, how does someone like myself get out there and start meeting people?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WaterTiger

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Take a chance!

Start at a local college see if they have and photography clubs, cooking clubs or whatever you interests are. Go to A LOT OF CLUBS! Sure some will be "whack" but some won't. You never find which ones are which till you GO OUT AND SEE!
 
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