"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

How do you meet women?

AlmostThere!

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 1, 2009
Messages
244
Reaction score
2
I don't have a very active social life and it feels like such a puzzle on where to meet women. If I was in situations where I was around lots of females, then I wouldn't have a problem.

Me: I work and come home. I have interests but really don't know where to get involved in my interests. I have a thing about going someplace and wasting my time if no one shows up or there's a bunch of whack people.

So, how does someone like myself get out there and start meeting people?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

WaterTiger

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2003
Messages
1,717
Reaction score
35
Location
Wine Country, Ca
Take a chance!

Start at a local college see if they have and photography clubs, cooking clubs or whatever you interests are. Go to A LOT OF CLUBS! Sure some will be "whack" but some won't. You never find which ones are which till you GO OUT AND SEE!
 
Top