How do you make the first move on THIS particular gal?

[Bill-RiZeR]

Okay, there's this girl I've known for around 5 and a half months and I'm really thinking about making a move on her, but could never find a way to since she has such a busy life and whatnot (Btw, she isn't interested in having a b/f but the really odd part is that she shows sign of uncertain feelings as if a part of her wants to be in a relationship and the other doesn't....and here's the kicker...if you consider it as one...I gave her SOME sincere compliments and she started smiling and blushing, and after that I just placed my hands on her face...and unfortunately not kissed...because either I was an idiot or just afraid that I may be going too far). So what do you guys think...to make a move on her or not, and if so, how?

Much is appreciated.

 

[catch]

yeah dude, damm right..

make a move, just get together somewhere and start with the phisical touching right away dont even think about how or why, just grab her hand and go for a walk or go back 2 ur place...get the kino in, the best way to start phisical contact is to show her something when your seated next to her, lean over and lean by her and show her some photos or something that you like..look at her hands, just tell her she has nice skin and touch it...when you make a few natural and harmless touches then turn the heat slightly up, move to more intimate kino, put your arm around her, smell her hair, playfull tickling and the like...a few sensual cuddles..when you sense shes enjoying it go for a kiss close... just stop and look her in the eyes, give her the bedroom eyes..and move slowly down to her lips...just do it! dont think about it, and you will do it!

 

[Bill-RiZeR]

Thanks man...but I just don't understand how the next few days she acts like it never happened or whatever...it's just too damn weird....I just don't want to ruin this at all and I'd love to make the first move as soon as possible before any other guy comes in and sweeps her off her feet since I'm not much of a talker....(I can be but I easily forget what to say).

Also there's this guy who CAN be a potential more "interesting" (You know the kind of guy who can make women laugh and is very witty) guy who hangs out with Samantha that may become a threat to me (And he just recently broke up with his g/f BUT he said that they're thinking about getting back together)...plus Samantha and the other dude are gonna go watch a movie together, dunno when that'll happen but I fear the worst...even though it isn't happening.

 

[SamePendo]

I just don't want to ruin this at all

Hahahaha. Ruin what? The sex or the friendship?

You have everything to win my friend.

 

[Bill-RiZeR]

Lol when I meant the first move...I mean to get her in on a kiss for her to be my g/f....but do remember she is currently not interested in getting a b/f at the moment...but somehow got really liked (at least in my eyes) my sincere compliments to her.

Also I may remind you that a couple of days later she acts like it never happened...at least on the outside of her shell it didn't, so I don't know if women like her would remember things like that and act upon it.

So does that mean I should go in for the kill (Obviously butter up the moment correctly) and kiss her?

 

[SamePendo]

women like her

:rock: (That smiley is to soften you up more before I say the following)

Get out of your head that she is any different from other women. She's not.

Now, you say she says that she doesn't want a bf etc, etc. Think of it this way. Say you are playing xbox with a little 6 year old kid. And he's starting to do the rain dance (pee-pee dance), he obviously wants to pee... but he keeps saying he doesn't. You, being a mature fellow, know he does want to pee. Other kids like him would play along and say that, yes, he doesn't want to pee.

She acts like nothing happened? Besides the fact that, nothing really happened... what did you expect her to do? Really!... Ask you to be her bf?

Act on it.

:rock:

PS - Treat, and think of women like kids, and soon you'll notice how much mature kids are in comparison to women.

 

[JC9]

First decide if you are willing to give her up as a friend.

If you are, start treating her like you want to f*ck her.

Kino, look deep into her eyes, get close to her, speak in a seductive tone. Don't flatter or compliment her to win her over, it will make most younger girls blush to receive compliments. Do this before you try and kiss her. If she still views you as non-sexual and you jump in for the full on kiss, it will freak her the f*ck out.

Now here is where it's important to know if you are willing to give her up as a friend. She likely views you as safe and non-sexual, like she does with her other friends. The only way to change that is to stop being safe, stop being a friend, create sexual tension.

If you have a chance with her, this will get you there. If you don't she will start avoiding you because the sexual tension makes her uncomfortable.

Im speaking from experience on this. It's hard to dig yourself out of the hole if she really views you as a friend. You have to be willing to lose her to have a chance at winning her.

 

[saki]

Dont try and figure out why chicks do this and that. The only thing you need to pay attention to is there ACTIONS. Is she finding all kinds of ways to creep into your life? Does she inquire about you or does she just talk about herself and try to use you as an emotional tampon? Is her body language inviting? There are 3 things that you need to find out

1. Is she an attention ***** (AW)= just wants attention, duh

2. Does she ask anything of me? = wants to use you

3. What does she to do me that she doesnt do around other guys? = your special

Once you know they patterns, its easy to keep them or drop em. If these are good, like rossi go!!!!!!!!!!!