"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you make a woman emotional about you

blueline

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I've already had sex with her before a few times and it obviously seems like she she likes some aspect of my personality, which I guess is a start. She claims she's never been in a real relationship at 21. She also claims to have never had emotional sex before (she's had enough partners by 21 to have the arise). Basically, what she's saying is she's never been seduced. Maybe she felt sexual attraction to someone and acted on it, but she's never been truly seduced in a way that affects her emotions and cognition creating something that is the actual sickness of love.

I'm basically asking: how do I mentally seduce her?

Personally, I don't see any long term prospects in this girl beyond a few months, but c'mon, she's a college student; nothing in college is serious.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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horaholic

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Hot and cold. Be nice one minute, and a total prick the next. Haven't you learned anything here yet?
 

dudewut

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horaholic said:
Hot and cold. Be nice one minute, and a total prick the next. Haven't you learned anything here yet?
this!

more: build her up and then pull the rug from under her


works like a charm, however how long a woman will tolerate this varies
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Spontaneity helps. Literally taking her off of her feet and 'having your way with her' i.e. not asking her permission before having sex can be a huge turn on. Just make sure that she's clearly enjoying it, otherwise you'll catch a rape case. It should be pretty damn obvious though.
 
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